IMO he isn't close to rock bottom yet. He might have been closer back in March when coach sat him. I am sure that got his attention and it seems he responded in the room and that paid off in freestyle results over the summer. But from the outside looking in, once he retained being back on the team status he forgot what rock bottom was for him.
I am not a professional but rock bottom is different for everyone. Could be as simple as being ashamed a kid watched you vomit or being kicked out of a bar or ramp up to just the first DUI. Other it may take multiple DUI's, Spouse leaving whatever. I believe taking wrestling away from him might be in order so he can finally sit in his own mess. Like Andrew Long though, if you are talented enough you can probably find a coach willing to enable that for the coaches own personal success but really its disguised as working their way back. Which is fine for a 1 or maybe 2 time offense depending, case by case scenarios.
I think we are past that and I trust Brands to help everyone. He is a great dude like that. But Tom needs to ask himself if he unintentionally might be enabling him to keep floating above rock bottom if he still keeps a carrot dangling. IMO he would be.
Also many students binge drink, esp. on football Saturdays in a college town. Lord knows I would crush a case back then. The difference is I didn't have the athlete behind the student title. Student athletes are expected to be above and beyond because of the privilege. That seems to be lost on some posters who act like its a right to be on the team and argue semantics of a case just because they are blinded by their own fandom. .
Bottom line is a kid can get the help he need without being able to still compete. It laughable when someone say keep him on the team and don't take that away or he could get worse. Maybe that's what has to happen and its not anyone fault but that individual.
I am not a professional but rock bottom is different for everyone. Could be as simple as being ashamed a kid watched you vomit or being kicked out of a bar or ramp up to just the first DUI. Other it may take multiple DUI's, Spouse leaving whatever. I believe taking wrestling away from him might be in order so he can finally sit in his own mess. Like Andrew Long though, if you are talented enough you can probably find a coach willing to enable that for the coaches own personal success but really its disguised as working their way back. Which is fine for a 1 or maybe 2 time offense depending, case by case scenarios.
I think we are past that and I trust Brands to help everyone. He is a great dude like that. But Tom needs to ask himself if he unintentionally might be enabling him to keep floating above rock bottom if he still keeps a carrot dangling. IMO he would be.
Also many students binge drink, esp. on football Saturdays in a college town. Lord knows I would crush a case back then. The difference is I didn't have the athlete behind the student title. Student athletes are expected to be above and beyond because of the privilege. That seems to be lost on some posters who act like its a right to be on the team and argue semantics of a case just because they are blinded by their own fandom. .
Bottom line is a kid can get the help he need without being able to still compete. It laughable when someone say keep him on the team and don't take that away or he could get worse. Maybe that's what has to happen and its not anyone fault but that individual.
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if you want to start the name calling I got one for you
