A 53 year old tradition ends.....

razpsu

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Tree decorating expertise!








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Fac

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Thanks Tom. Never easy to lose a parent especially around the holidays. Her Parkinson's was just taking over and we are at peace she is reunited with my father. In all of her hallucinations she woke up 2 weeks ago completely lucid and awake suddenly and told my daughter how she had just spent 15 minutes with my father and hadn't seen him in 3 years. (He died 3 years ago). She told my daughter that she told my father she wanted to go with him and he told her it wasn't time yet but it would be soon and he left. Then went back into her hallucinations. Gives me goose bumps.... Talking to many hospice people the stories they have shared with me just like this are amazing. There is definetly something on the other side after life here on earth.
My Mom died December 19th, 1999. My parents lived in Hermitage, PA and I live outside New Orleans. My Dad called me around the 17th and said it was time to come home and visit mom as her time was near the end. I flew into Pittsburgh and then drove to Hermitage on the 19th. My Dad said that she was waiting for me. I talked to her to let her know that I had made it home to see her one more (last) time. She was pretty much out of it as she has emphysema and was on oxygen. She died within the hour. She waited for me to get home.
 

slwlion01

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The Gambits are going through some difficult times. Recent deaths among extended family and friends, nagging (non life-threatening) medical issues that afflict Mrs.G and I, unexpected financial burdens....
These are certainly not unique to us, and others suffer far worse, but they have made it difficult to continue our 53 year live tree tradition. Most of those years involved venturing into the fields of a tree farm and cutting the treasure ourselves. Sadly, this year that tradition will end. The decision was difficult, but necessary.
God willing, it will resume next year, but, for now, the Gambits will decorate a very nice ARTIFICIAL....FAKE Christmas tree. This saddens me more than you can imagine, but life goes on. Still, Christmas is about more than a tree. It's a time of reflection, love, hope, and so much more. The Gambits wish all who visit this Board peace, good health, and much happiness. May God Bless us, every one.
Well said. I lost my granddaughter last month, Today, the 23rd she would be 28. The saddest Christmas of my life. A time of joy and bitterness for me. May everyone enjoy what they have and always hug their children and grand children.
 

pendal1

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Well said. I lost my granddaughter last month, Today, the 23rd she would be 28. The saddest Christmas of my life. A time of joy and bitterness for me. May everyone enjoy what they have and always hug their children and grand children.
Very sorry for your loss.. God bless your granddaughter and family. As I age myself it's a scary and difficult time seeing all of the health issues, especially cancer, affect family and friends. Best wishes and God's blessings to all.
 

fairgambit

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Well said. I lost my granddaughter last month, Today, the 23rd she would be 28. The saddest Christmas of my life. A time of joy and bitterness for me. May everyone enjoy what they have and always hug their children and grand children.
I am incredibly saddened by this news. The end of a tradition pales by comparison. My prayers go out for your granddaughter and your entire family. May God bless you all.
 
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Mrdibbs

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Fairgambit, as a fellow golden ager on this board, my absolute best to you and Mrs. Gambit this wonderful season.

As others have posted previously, life has many ups and downs. Some are mere nuisance, but some have much greater consequence. None of us are bulletproof.

To all my fellow posters on here and a couple other platforms, let's try to be a reflection of God's goodness in this trying world so that our actions contribute to the greater good.

Hold our families, both immediate and extended, our neighbors, our friends closer today, tomorrow and always.

A very Merry Christmas to all.
 

G3624

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Fair, I'm sorry to hear of your artificial tree, but alas, times change us all. And it is the living that keeps us walking. Keep walking, my screen name use to be geen2618 or something like that. My memory .... well leave it at that.
But I was for laughter's sake envisioning Demlion taking you on a Christmas tree hunt in his boat.😆
 

step.eng69

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Well said. I lost my granddaughter last month, Today, the 23rd she would be 28. The saddest Christmas of my life. A time of joy and bitterness for me. May everyone enjoy what they have and always hug their children and grandchildren.
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your granddaughter slwlion, I cannot imagine the overwhelming distress you, your wife, children and family are experiencing. I have two children and five grandchildren ages 24 to 34 yrs old and think about their wellness constantly.

"Losing a grandchild feels like having a piece of your future stolen. The dreams we had of teaching them, watching them grow – all suspended in time, yet somehow, their spirit continues to grow within us. They say time heals all wounds, but the loss of a grandchild creates a wound that time learns to carry, not erase.”..........unknowen
 

fairgambit

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I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your granddaughter slwlion, I cannot imagine the overwhelming distress you, your wife, children and family are experiencing. I have two children and five grandchildren ages 24 to 34 yrs old and think about their wellness constantly.

"Losing a grandchild feels like having a piece of your future stolen. The dreams we had of teaching them, watching them grow – all suspended in time, yet somehow, their spirit continues to grow within us. They say time heals all wounds, but the loss of a grandchild creates a wound that time learns to carry, not erase.”..........unknowen
Great quote step.
 
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