Do you trust your spouse?

Ron Mehico

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Trust is one of the most, if not the most, fundamental things that's required in order to have a successful relationship. If you don't have trust I don't see how you can be married.
 
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Do whaaa??

How you know my routine? You using one of those drones to spy on me?


Talked to my peephole connection-- got you on video, right after he left Erin Andrews hotel.


 
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KingOfBBN

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I love being married and we trust each other completely. We also don't put ourselves in opportunities for trouble either. There is no greater peace than to not have any worries.

You know how many people are terrified to leave their phones alone in the room with their spouse? That should never be the case. If someone ever gets weird about that, you can bet something is up like my brother's ex-wife. I always hated her because I saw through her BS and knew she'd dump my brother after she economically got to where she wanted and poof, she did. So I feel bad for him but his relationship was crap even before they got married.

But seriously, I'm always amazed at some of the people that badmouth or run down their spouse. It gives a negative portrayal of marriage when for a lot of folks, marriage is pretty awesome.
 
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You did, clearly.

But I didn't ask you....you post too much...nah, I just like to get a post in between once every 1500 or so posts...;) You take all the good topics.....gotta go, have to answer someone who did ask me..I was waiting for that.
 
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Well OP obviously you are fishing, so the question is ,,, DO YOU ??

If I told you how much trust I have in my wife you may not believe it. The intent was to illicit responses to learn. (I try to do that at times.) I AM thankful.

My wife is heaven here on earth. With what we started with to what we are today is a testament to her. I've got broad shoulders and seldom rattle but my wife's strength dwarf's mine.
I have a loving home with a praying wife that I never cease to be amazed by how devoted she is to me and our family. She is full of the Holy Spirit but also lives a life that I know is pleasing to God. She is alive with love. No doubt. The biggest arguments we get in is when I get angry at her not allowing me to love her and do things for her as she still thinks of the children and me first.
If possible I would not leave her side but I must work. I work for her, not for me. (Used to work for her and the kids but they're all grown now.) 30 plus years (I know exactly to the day we met.) All I do is work waiting until it;s time to come home.
If my wife decided it was time for me to have any sort of bad, I'd take it and never complain. I'd be sad but I doubt I would question her. I have had it good. Real good for a long time. We spend time as I am sure most older couples do figuring out what we will do and what will happen as we age. It's scary. One of my driving forces is assuring she can carry on if I go first. Oh well, you asked and I really didn't even start. I hope I answered well enough this time.... Be Good and God Bless...
 

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If I told you how much trust I have in my wife you may not believe it. The intent was to illicit responses to learn. (I try to do that at times.) I AM thankful.

My wife is heaven here on earth. With what we started with to what we are today is a testament to her. I've got broad shoulders and seldom rattle but my wife's strength dwarf's mine.
I have a loving home with a praying wife that I never cease to be amazed by how devoted she is to me and our family. She is full of the Holy Spirit but also lives a life that I know is pleasing to God. She is alive with love. No doubt. The biggest arguments we get in is when I get angry at her not allowing me to love her and do things for her as she still thinks of the children and me first.
If possible I would not leave her side but I must work. I work for her, not for me. (Used to work for her and the kids but they're all grown now.) 30 plus years (I know exactly to the day we met.) All I do is work waiting until it;s time to come home.
If my wife decided it was time for me to have any sort of bad, I'd take it and never complain. I'd be sad but I doubt I would question her. I have had it good. Real good for a long time. We spend time as I am sure most older couples do figuring out what we will do and what will happen as we age. It's scary. One of my driving forces is assuring she can carry on if I go first. Oh well, you asked and I really didn't even start. I hope I answered well enough this time.... Be Good and God Bless...
Thats a lot of words to say you trust your wife.

Doth protest too much.
 

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100 percent.

We also don't put ourselves in troublesome situations.

And our phones, emails, etc. are wide open. We use the same passwords. But, since it's a trusting relationship I never have the inkling or desire to go through her personal things. She's the same way with me.
 

KingOfBBN

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100 percent.

We also don't put ourselves in troublesome situations.

And our phones, emails, etc. are wide open. We use the same passwords. But, since it's a trusting relationship I never have the inkling or desire to go through her personal things. She's the same way with me.

Same exact situation here. Not to get all Dr. Phil on folks but when people step out on their spouse, they didn't just make one mistake. They made a series of bad judgments to lead to it. Don't put yourself alone or in bad situations with the opposite sex.

Be completely wide open with emails, accounts, phones and all of that and you'll do well. Trust is everything.
 
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JDHoss

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Last summer my wife said she needed my signature on a notarized document, but she covered up what I was signing for, saying that she couldn't tell me. I signed it without hesitation. Turned out that she was getting my dad's Marine Corp. records from WWII (he fought at Iwo Jima), and it was going to be a part of a display she was making me for Christmas. It included his records, enlistment pics and other photos of him, along with some other stuff, including the flag from his funeral. Probably the best Christmas present I ever got. So yes, I trust my wife implicitly.
 

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Yep, trust her 1000%. Been married to my best friend going on 18 years. Can't imagine life without her.