I hate to be that guy, but I can’t help but think that this is pretty rich coming from someone who was just scared that they could lose a grandchild to a tragedy. If I was to say, I would have more respect for your situation if your kids took more responsibility for putting your grandchild in that situation, it probably wouldn’t be received well, would it? It’s all about perspective. It’s pretty easy to critique things from a distance, but a whole different ball game when it hits too close to home. I understand the two situations aren’t exactly the same, but I wouldn’t want to be in the shoes of either parties, so I won’t throw stones at the parents of the young man who lost his life in the frat house. Those frat boys had hours to do the right thing and help the young man who was incapable of helping himself and they chose not to. That’s pretty hard for me to accept, not just as a parent, but as a human being.