I complain a lot about refs and how inconsistently they seem to apply the rules. Yesterday was more of the same.
I always appreciate the instant replays on the big board when they run them. I want more of that please. Seeing how obviously right or wrong calls are shown to be is a great crowd motivator imho.
I have reffed and umpired a lot in 3 sports, one at the college level, and:
1) Most of my reffing Partners have usually been good, knowledgeable and fair (I won’t judge my own performance)
2) There are always a lot of non-calls and calls made in any given game in any given sport
3) When you blow a call, you should never allow the blown call to influence the following one
4) The soccer guidelines of not using the whistle unless an advantage is gained or safety impaired is great, and I would love it if it was followed in all the sports I care about.
5) if you have never officiated a game, you have no idea how hard it is. You are one person, and there are 10, 18, 20, or 22 players on the field/ pitch for the sports I have worked. You cannot see everything that goes on.
6) If you prioritize safety of play and equity of advantage (whistle plays that penalize unfair advantage) you win the respect of the players in any sport.