A long time ago in conversations with non-wrestling people about the sport when they would ask "why do you like wrestling", my answer would often be something like this. To be GREAT you need these things:
1. Mental toughness - if you don't believe in yourself and that you can win, you've already lost when you step on the mat
2. Constant discipline - not just for those 7+ minutes on the map but just about all day every day. Cael talked about it in the presser this week - managing your weight all week sets you up for success.
3. Quickness - you have to drill until reactions are just reflex and you must have those kind of muscle fibers
4. Strength - your entire body. I played many sports and wrestling by far was the one which engaged every muscle. There is not doubt that some moves take a crazy amount of strength to execute or you can be overwhelmed by the raw power of someone.
5. Balance & body awareness - creating angles and gaining leverage is essential to executing takedowns and maintaining a solid stance gives you the balance to fend off shots. Scoring points at the edge is the equivalent of a great receiver dragging his toes for an impossible catch along the sideline and all about body awareness.
6. Flexibility - Key to defense. How many guys do you see bend to the point that you can feel the pain in your own body. This is one of the biggest differences I see in the sport as compared to say 20 years ago. There are far more guys who are uber-flexible making it much harder to score.
7. Skill - you can't be a one-trick pony. Every wrestler has their go to/favorite moves that they enjoy or that just work for them and their style. But you've got to have a variety of moves and counters or your just too easy to neutralize.
Go down our lineup right now. Rate each of our guys on these 7 dimensions and then compare them to who they wrestled against from Michigan, Iowa and now Ohio State. The winner of each of those bouts is going to have a distinct advantage over the loser in probably a couple areas but it could just be one.
8. (this is an edit to my original post and I can't believe I let it off) Conditioning - This is somewhat tied to number 2 in the sense that poor weight management plays a part. Zain and Nolf are great examples. They had the deepest of gas tanks. They could go, go, and go some more. There were many times they exhausted their opponents by midway or end of the 2nd then that onslaught just went into silly territory. This genetics and training.
Back to your original post - it's been a while since I watched the matches, but in mind the reason Dake won was more about 5 & 6. He was just so damn hard to score on (and still is). He knew Taylor was going to be shoot and be agressive. As long as he held his position and created just enough action not to be called for stalling, he would be able to defend and score points off a counter. It is frustrating as hell to experience and even watch as a fan, but it is a reality of the sport.