All you will ever hear is the kid's side of what happened, maybe it went down exactly like he said, maybe UM's staff had quit contacting him hoping he would decommit and the kid didn't so they had no other choice to get him off the list. Happens a lot, UGA has quit contacting kids, when a kid decommits from UK many posters here say UK pulled away. Always 2 sides of a story, too bad for the kid he isn't going to his dream school, but he has a chance to take some officials and get a free education, this didn't happen on signing day.
Very true.All you will ever hear is the kid's side of what happened, maybe it went down exactly like he said, maybe UM's staff had quit contacting him hoping he would decommit and the kid didn't so they had no other choice to get him off the list. Happens a lot, UGA has quit contacting kids, when a kid decommits from UK many posters here say UK pulled away. Always 2 sides of a story, too bad for the kid he isn't going to his dream school, but he has a chance to take some officials and get a free education, this didn't happen on signing day.
No one is committed until signing day. Verbal "commitments" bind neither side. It is a fair relationship. The kid could bail on the school any time, including on signing day, leaving the team dry.We do not get the whole story. I agree.
But, when an offer is made and is accepted, a coach needs to avoid subtle messaging. It should not be "we want you so long as you hear from us or so long as someone better does not come along." The kid was evidently COMMITTED, something we harp on all the time as fans. If the offer was contingent and kid dropped the ball, the coach needs to be overt and tell the kid early enough so the kid can make plans.
We do not get the whole story. I agree.
But, when an offer is made and is accepted, a coach needs to avoid subtle messaging. It should not be "we want you so long as you hear from us or so long as someone better does not come along." The kid was evidently COMMITTED, something we harp on all the time as fans. If the offer was contingent and kid dropped the ball, the coach needs to be overt and tell the kid early enough so the kid can make plans.
No one is committed until signing day. Verbal "commitments" bind neither side. It is a fair relationship. The kid could bail on the school any time, including on signing day, leaving the team dry.
The Harbaugh staff didn't make the offer, it was the Hoke staff who was all let go. So the present coach didn't accept his commitment. I have mixed feelings on it, the current staff shouldn't be forced to sign a kid they don't want, but if that was the case they should have met with him right after signing day 15 and told him he needed to look for something else, maybe he did meet with the kid and tell him that. Harbaugh can't tell his side of what happened.
The Harbaugh staff did not make the offer, but accepted the commitment.
I agree with most of the remainder of your post, but think Harbaugh should have conveyed his decision expressly to the kid about 2 months ago. Maybe he did. But, if he did not, I think that is bad form.
Must of learned it from Petrino
The kid has been committed to UM since 13, Harbaugh and his staff weren't there, Hoke and his staff accepted the offer. Rules prevent Harbaugh from commenting about the incident, for all we know he told the kid after signing day last year UM didn't have a spot for him and the kid held on hoping things would change. All we know is the kid says he was told a few days ago, and that's all we will ever know, his side of the story. What we are hearing is bad, but its easy to condemn someone when they can't give their side of the story. If the kid decided to bolt on signing day, unless he is bolting to our school that should be looked down on too, and happens a lot more often than this does.
The kid has been committed to UM since 13, Harbaugh and his staff weren't there, Hoke and his staff accepted the offer. Rules prevent Harbaugh from commenting about the incident, for all we know he told the kid after signing day last year UM didn't have a spot for him and the kid held on hoping things would change. All we know is the kid says he was told a few days ago, and that's all we will ever know, his side of the story. What we are hearing is bad, but its easy to condemn someone when they can't give their side of the story. If the kid decided to bolt on signing day, unless he is bolting to our school that should be looked down on too, and happens a lot more often than this does.
Or Saban. Or Meyer. Or Spurrier. Or Stoops (Bob).
Just another personal hit piece written by someone angry, jealous, or a personal vendetta against the coach or school.
All of the top coaches at top schools have done this, on multiple occasions. It's really a non-story. Kids change their minds, sometimes on signing day. Coaches do too. The bigger the name of the coach/school, the more it happens, and the less of a story it becomes.
BTW, Petrino didn't pull the offer from that Coburn kid last year, he just asked him to "gray" shirt. Turned out well for the kid. He ended up at a prestigious private school in Wake Forest (very nice degree, if he can achieve it), much closer to home, and received PT as a true freshman.
I'm sure the kid who was committed to Michigan will end up somewhere else, and there's a very good chance it will be a better "fit" for him in the long run. And that's a good thing, for all parties involved. If Michigan is not a good fit for this kid, much, much better to know now, for all involved, than to find out after enrolling. Things often change over time. Recruiting is no different. It's an unfortunate piece of big-boy recruiting, and its definitely not as rare as some writers/reporters often portray it to be.
notice that "commitment" was in quotes.No one is committed and then you proceed to use the phrase verbal commitments? You see the problems there, right?
Commitment is different than a signed recruit, but commitments matter to people with an ethic.
notice that "commitment" was in quotes.
The story as we know it is that Harbaugh's staff accepted him when they came on. It is common place for a staff to parse through prior recruits from the former staff and accept some and tell others they have to move on. This kid says he was told the former.
Kids bolt. No doubt. Other coaches keep recruiting and kids are making life decisions. The fact that kids bolt does not mean coaches should act like kids.
Finally, I have not condemned Harbaugh. I am saying that telling a kid 3 weeks before signing day that he does not have a scholly is just wrong. I am not saying that happened here, as only one side has been reported. Some are reporting that the kid is already committed to another school. So, maybe he had a heads-up before this week's news. I hope so.
Yup. But, in the case of Swenson, he was hearing from the UM staff. Things evidently changed about the time of the bowl game.
That is still his side, I have no idea if he was or wasn't, but kids don't always tell the 100% facts. It could have just as easily been we are filling up and you need to explore your options as it was you are our number 1 guy at OL. If they lied to him up until this happened it will bite UM down the road, but if the kid hadn't signed financial aid papers with UM nothing he can do except go public.
He committed in 2013. Do you think the new staff went silent for the past year and he just did not get the hint?
If a kid remains committed for a year, I think we can accept the conclusion that the staff accepted his commitment.
I understand you don't like UM or Harbaugh, but before I believe everything a kid who isn't happy says I would like to hear the entire story. They could have told him he wasn't in their plans a year ago and for him to make other arrangements but the kid decided to hang on hoping that would change until now, UM was his dream school. Its no different than Richt doing it at Miami, Kirby doing it at UGA or Stoops when he came to UK. Kid committed to a staff that was fired.
Just thought it was odd that an offensive lineman committed to Michigan THE DAY AFTER this story came out. It looks apparent that one's offer was pulled for the other.
You clearly do not understand. I love Harbaugh, but am not buying what you are selling. I cannot defy logic and you want me to suspend common sense. Won't happen.
Common sense tells me kids lie to make them look better in bad times, been around too many of them to take everything they say as 100% truth when it makes them look not so good. We just happen to have different opinions, it happens all the time. Peace.