Earlier this morning, my youngest Son came by for a pit stop and one more cup of coffee. After Years of Living through the travels of his Dad and Me, he is on his way to the airport to board his company plane. Destination: Pasadena! What Goes 'Round...Glad we always brought him a Toy...Hope he brings ME one! 
vi·car·i·ous·ly
vəˈkerēəslē,vīˈkerēəslē/
adverb
adverb: vicariously
vi·car·i·ous·ly
vəˈkerēəslē,vīˈkerēəslē/
adverb
adverb: vicariously
- in a way that is experienced in the imagination through the actions of another person.
"she was living vicariously through her children"