Missouri is just as inexplicable. There's no forgiveness for games you lost but should have won; there is gratitude for games where you might have overachieved.
But we were one game away from cracking the Top 20. The gap could have been bridged by winning in Jacksonville, where we were extremely undermanned, undermanned more than anyone in entire the bowl season. We were honorable in that defeat.
On a side note, I'd say that, among the SEC teams that lost their bowl games, we were the only one that didn't suck. The others that lost sucked the stars right out of the sky. Arkansas won but sucked anyway.