and here's why:
Humans make mistakes. Not just referees, but all of us. That is the imperfect world we live in and that's okay.
The problem in the PN/Fenwick situation is not what happened at the end of the game, but the reaction to it.
Rather than offering forgiveness to the officials, the ugliness of legal recourse ensues. This is just another example of how we are killing ourselves spiritually by using litigation for what ails us.
No matter how egregious something may be, acceptance is the answer. Before an athletic competition begins, isn't it accepted that the offficials are the final arbiters, not the IHSA or the court of law. That self-pity and blame game, so much a part of the American society today, destroys one's character.
Yes, it was painful to have a game end that way, but there is an axiom that states that pain is touchstone of spiritual growth. Instead of being bitter and resentful at the IHSA and the officiating crew, the only way to remove that internal wrath is to forgive. Those parties aren't responsible for the bitterness in one's soul, but they sure have exposed it.
Humans make mistakes. Not just referees, but all of us. That is the imperfect world we live in and that's okay.
The problem in the PN/Fenwick situation is not what happened at the end of the game, but the reaction to it.
Rather than offering forgiveness to the officials, the ugliness of legal recourse ensues. This is just another example of how we are killing ourselves spiritually by using litigation for what ails us.
No matter how egregious something may be, acceptance is the answer. Before an athletic competition begins, isn't it accepted that the offficials are the final arbiters, not the IHSA or the court of law. That self-pity and blame game, so much a part of the American society today, destroys one's character.
Yes, it was painful to have a game end that way, but there is an axiom that states that pain is touchstone of spiritual growth. Instead of being bitter and resentful at the IHSA and the officiating crew, the only way to remove that internal wrath is to forgive. Those parties aren't responsible for the bitterness in one's soul, but they sure have exposed it.