I don't know Syd, Beau, or Carter, but I know people who know them. Everything I've heard from people who actually know Syd and Beau is positive and that they are wonderful people and a great couple. I think I'll pass on what I've heard about Carter (just general stuff, nothing specific to this thread)You guys (not all of you) are making a lot of (insulting) assumptions about their marriage and their character, all while asking "well, why didn't these women go to the police?"
You're proving exactly why. This woman said put her name behind an accusation and many of you have spent the last month impugning her character, dragging up old social media posts, calling her crazy, implying that they will get divorced, etc....
This is what happens in these cases. Every corner of their lives is subjected to intense, often bad faith, scrutiny in an attempt to discredit them. It's not worth it to a lot of women to go through that.
The initial response on here was actually really refreshing in the empathy many showed towards the alleged victims and SA survivors in general. It's disappointing that the mob has taken over.
Disappointing, sure, but not surprising, right? Doesn’t it always?It's disappointing that the mob has taken over.
Anybody hearing anything on this?
I don't know Syd, Beau, or Carter, but I know people who know them. Everything I've heard from people who actually know Syd and Beau is positive and that they are wonderful people and a great couple. I think I'll pass on what I've heard about Carter (just general stuff, nothing specific to this thread)
Thanks for the info!The part of Mineo's tweet that got cut off:
"No one is on leave nor getting fired from what I know. As a matter of fact, Starocci may be wrestling for NLWC again."
Nobody is really cutting on the actual victims. Some are questioning if they actually exist. As of now, they don't exist. As far as their identities, I have no interest in having them exposed. They should remain anonymous until any legal action is taken. Carter is the only person with the right to face his accusers.You guys (not all of you) are making a lot of (insulting) assumptions about their marriage and their character, all while asking "well, why didn't these women go to the police?"
You're proving exactly why. This woman said put her name behind an accusation and many of you have spent the last month impugning her character, dragging up old social media posts, calling her crazy, implying that they will get divorced, etc....
This is what happens in these cases. Every corner of their lives is subjected to intense, often bad faith, scrutiny in an attempt to discredit them. It's not worth it to a lot of women to go through that.
The initial response on here was actually really refreshing in the empathy many showed towards the alleged victims and SA survivors in general. It's disappointing that the mob has taken over.
This is bad internetting.Brantt posted some nuggets on this
This is good internetting.This is what Brantt posted on 247:
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Cael put together a massive statement addressing and refuting everything immediately after the Collegian article came out. The University would not sign off on releasing it which I'm sure did not sit well and continues not to sit well as these people are just taking free shots at him publicly. I will be pretty surprised if there are not lawsuits moving forward.
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- Cael put together a massive statement addressing and refuting everything immediately after the Collegian article came out. The University would not sign off on releasing it which I'm sure did not sit well and continues not to sit well as these people are just taking free shots at him publicly. I will be pretty surprised if there are not lawsuits moving forward.
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Everything here is an assumption and paints her in the worst light possible without actually knowing anything about what she knows or her motivations. It's exactly what I was talking about.Nobody is really cutting on the actual victims. Some are questioning if they actually exist. As of now, they don't exist. As far as their identities, I have no interest in having them exposed. They should remain anonymous until any legal action is taken. Carter is the only person with the right to face his accusers.
Most of us are cutting on the loudmouth social media influencer throwing around accusations with absolutely no known basis. It certainly appears that she is all about the attention and she could give 2 ***** about the actual victims.
A lot of these new X accounts are emanating from further south in tornado alley. There’s been a pattern of new Oklahoma State related anonymous accounts gleefully jumping on this stuffJust Iowa fans in their wet dreams.
She is doing a great job of painting herself in the worst light possible. Nothing more than another unhinged piece of garbage influencer.Everything here is an assumption and paints her in the worst light possible without actually knowing anything about what she knows or her motivations. It's exactly what I was talking about.
This is disingenuous.You guys (not all of you) are making a lot of (insulting) assumptions about their marriage and their character, all while asking "well, why didn't these women go to the police?"
You're proving exactly why. This woman said put her name behind an accusation and many of you have spent the last month impugning her character, dragging up old social media posts, calling her crazy, implying that they will get divorced, etc....
This is what happens in these cases. Every corner of their lives is subjected to intense, often bad faith, scrutiny in an attempt to discredit them. It's not worth it to a lot of women to go through that.
The initial response on here was actually really refreshing in the empathy many showed towards the alleged victims and SA survivors in general. It's disappointing that the mob has taken over.
My opinion, for what it is worth, if a statement is released, that will add fuel to a smoldering fire of news.This is good internetting.
So your saying Uncle Carmine isn't wonderful?Wonderful people don't discuss the size of their private parts publicly. Sorry. There's a screw loose here.
Just my .02 on Cael. His failure to report is truly unforgiveable and PSU has no choice but to let him go.
I respect Cael as a coach and a person. I believe this was an unfortunate mistake and that he's capable of reforming if he lands in the right place. I believe, with all my heart, that place is Iowa City, Iowa.
Hi Ernie Ladd!My opinion, for what it is worth, if a statement is released, that will add fuel to a smoldering fire of news.
I actually think Penn State would be smart to keep it until it is needed.
Pretty sure all his posts are satire. Syd is the victim? My goodness.I was thinking about an actual response to you on this JS, but then realized this was another one of your satire posts. Thanks for the chuckle.
In the big moments, he often came up small. Not saying he’s not a good teammate. I never thought “wish he would shoot more” about anyone as much as BB. And, ps, he wrestled up because he could not beat NickReally? Beau gave arguably more to the team than anyone. He wrestled up a weight for the team, not himself. Your take is really bad. He's a major part of 4 National Championships.
You nailed my feelings exactly. I love when people preach social justice to me and then their next video talks about how wide their ****** is. I guess the word v-gina isn’t allowed.Wonderful people don't discuss the size of their private parts publicly. Sorry. There's a screw loose here.
He's just a fan of the sport.Just Iowa fans in their wet dreams.
Not cut off… just have to click “show more”The part of Mineo's tweet that got cut off:
"No one is on leave nor getting fired from what I know. As a matter of fact, Starocci may be wrestling for NLWC again."
The same could be said about Trent Hidlay.In the big moments, he often came up small. Not saying he’s not a good teammate. I never thought “wish he would shoot more” about anyone as much as BB. And, ps, he wrestled up because he could not beat Nick
I didn't say she was a direct victim, but she put her name and reputation on the line and has been subject to considerable harassment.This is disingenuous.
The vast majority of the criticism has NOT been leveled at any victim (in fact, I'm not sure that there is any at the victim), but has been directed at Syd Bartlett. Who is not a victim in this AT ALL. Unless you consider her as an adjunct victim to Beau in terms of the theft (shared property now, although I don't think they were married when the theft allegedy occurred).
I'll agree that a couple of these criticisms may be over the line, and I'm not going to participate in ripping a guy for his choice in women (something that I've made mistakes in my life as well). But that has nothing to do with any victim.
If you are going to try to act like Syd Bartlett's social media activity over the past couple of months has been consistent with someone who should be taken seriously - well, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt that you are being disingenuous, because you can't actually think otherwise, can you?
LOL, what name and reputation? Without Beau, she has neither. With Beau, she has both. She is running off his fumes.I didn't say she was a direct victim, but she put her name and reputation on the line and has been subject to considerable harassment.
Not trying to overstate its value or anything, but Syd has over 1 million tiktok followers. Even Carter’s social media reach pales in comparison.LOL, what name and reputation? Without Beau, she has neither. With Beau, she has both. She is running off his fumes.
A lot of TokTok content is dumb but harmless. But if she's a witness at a rape trial or a defamation hearing, the audience of 12 and/or the judge may be less amused than her online target audience.In regards to her social media activity, Zoomers have much different sensibilities about that stuff. There's a generational difference there. Not liking it is totally reasonable, but nothing I've seen posted here discredits her. It's fairly normal for her age group to post like that. That post has 30k likes. We're not the intended audience. She's a pretty run of the mill Zoomer tik-toker.
Not trying to overstate its value or anything, but Syd has over 1 million tiktok followers. Even Carter’s social media reach pales in comparison.
I hear you Nerf. That says more about her followers than it does Syd. Trying to understand who would follow that hot mess but I guess it works in that generation.Not trying to overstate its value or anything, but Syd has over 1 million tiktok followers. Even Carter’s social media reach pales in comparison.
Yeah, and that's a moral failure of the jury and judge, not her.A lot of TokTok content is dumb but harmless. But if she's a witness at a rape trial or a defamation hearing, the audience of 12 and/or the judge may be less amused than her online target audience.
Lol. When you make your life an open book, what cover?Yeah, and that's a moral failure of the jury and judge, not her.
Don't judge a book by its cover. We're supposed to know that's wrong and yet, you're using it as your main justification.
Name and reputation?? She was an onlyfans girl ffsLOL, what name and reputation? Without Beau, she has neither. With Beau, she has both. She is running off his fumes.
I think you're under the illusion that just because you can see her public persona on social media, that means you actually know her. A common mistake older people make in the era of the internet.Lol. When you make your life an open book, what cover?
The link JoeBagobagels gave goes to the page Brantt's post appears on, but not the specific post. You have to scroll down the page to find the post. I have never been able to successfully link even to an original page like JoeBagobagels did. Is linking to the page the best that can be done or is it possible to link to the specific post? Also, does the technique change if you are quoting a post from a different forum than the one you are posting to? TIA!This is best internetting.