You might be dumbfounded because that’s not what the article describes. The article says that in late 2024, the Bartletts were made aware of a sexual assault allegation against Starocci by mutual friends of the Bartletts and the woman, and that they had apparently heard rumors about Starocci’s behavior towards women previously (rumors that appear to have been circulating through the undergraduate population for the past several years). When they were alerted to the allegation, Mrs. Bennett called Starocci’s girlfriend in December 2024 and told her of the allegation. A few days later, Beau discovered that his locker had been broken into and his items stolen, and suspected Starocci because he was aware that his wife had just told Starocci’s girlfriend about the assault allegations a few days before. The theft of his belongings was what Beau says he told the coaching staff about, as well as the inappropriate conduct that Beau experienced from Starocci.
At no point in the story does it say that the woman spoke to Bennett or his wife, just that mutual friends shared the woman’s experience with the Bennetts, which they forwarded to Starocci’s girlfriend. At no point does it suggest that Mrs. Bennett told Beau to tell the coaching staff about the allegation.