Originally posted by LHSTigers94:
Mirakle,
It's obvious you feel very strong about it. More than others that have posted. You simply asked the question "why is this a story". I answered your question. I am not going to or don't care to go into comparison between the JRW and this guy. It is not that important to me. I have always said that if someone was wrong then the punishment should fit. I strongly feel that punishing kids is not always the correct answer and should be approached with caution. I also feel that the people that were speaking up were doing so in favor of the kids. If the punishment would have been a lifetime ban for the coach and all involved as well as a financial penalty without punishing the kids and protecting them from national embarrassment; I don't think anyone would have said a word nor came to any defense. Just my opinion of the JRW deal. I don't think anyone suggested that no one should be punished. Maybe I read it wrong.
For the record to me a "stand up guy" don't let himself get drunk enough to possibly get himself arrested or possibly killed. Saying you sorry doesn't help the fact that this woman may be scared $hitless the rest of her life because his drunken actions. I can see an 21 year old being in this situation, not an adult. If you think its ago just because he is taking responsibility for it then, that is where we differ. A remorseful killer is still a killer. That killer will never be a "stand up person" in my book regardless of how he "take his punishment like a man".
Oh my Lord in Heaven. Are you serious with this post? Now you are going to compare this guy to a killer? Really? How in the world can I have an intelligent discussion with you when you are going to act this outrageous? Through your self-righteousness I am sure you never made a mistake or had any indiscretion that you were not proud of unlike the rest of us mortals. I am sure we can struggle on. We will look to you in the future for guidance.
I said before, what he did was wrong but you want to label the guy for the rest of his life. I am sure the punishment will fit the crime and will be handed out and carried out. I seriously doubt this poor woman will be "damaged" for the rest of her life. The guy is apologizing to her and not blaming someone else. The only thing a person can do when they make a mistake, and that is all this is, is to apologize to the person, say it won't happen again, and ask what they can do to make things right again. You can't do anything more than that in this situation. You can stop with the "what if this or that happened" stuff too. It didn't and we have to deal in facts and punish accordingly. You don't hand out punishment based on what might have happened in this case. You're blowing this way out of proportion.
Little League Baseball has stripped other teams of titles for various reasons in the past. I would be willing to bet you never said a word about it then. I just bet you didn't. But now you do. The proper punishment was handed down in this case. You can't just punish the coaches. The kids playing were illegal. Don't you think LL baseball thought about that before making their decision? I am sure they did, just like they had to think of the fall out that would occur with such a decision. To me, this is just like a team having a kid who is too old to play. They broke a rule, period, and I applaud LL baseball for sticking by their guns. To make matters worse, everyone associated with JRW wants to blame someone else. It would be a welcomed sight to see just one person on that side stand up and say, "We don't like the decision, but we have to live with it and abide by the rules" like other teams in the past have said. If one person would say that I would feel differently than I do.
Thirty years ago we wouldn't even be having this discussion. The rule would have been broken, the punishment handed down and that would have been it. Now in 2015, people want to do anything to escape responsibility for their actions and blame anyone they can find. They also want to justify their actions even when they are wrong. They figure, we're wrong, so what, here is why we did it. Well, YOU DID IT! This kind of crap really needs to stop in this country because it is very damaging and wrong. This is where the real damage is.
Finally, the article was NOT written for the reason you say. That is your opinion. I think someone has an axe to grind. I would like to know how the author of that piece feels about the decision LL baseball made in regard to JRW. I could be wrong, but I'd like to know.