Getting even with inconsiderate/discourteous drivers

CatOfDaVille

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I don't like people coming at me with their high beams on, but I also think people mistake the newer LED headlights, which are whiter and brighter, as someone having their high beams on. I've had a number of people flash their headlights at me when I didn't have my high beams on. I returned the favor just to prove it. My car also senses oncoming vehicles and automatically adjusts down my high beams, which is good because I live out in a rural area that's not well lit. and i need the high beams to watch for deer and other critters.

Correct. Happened to me the other night when driving my wife's Pilot. It's not my fault that my headlights are better than yours even on low beam.
 

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Run'em off the road and just drag their a$$ out of the car and kick the **** out of them............
Then politely invite them to church, get back in your car and sling gravel all over them as your driving away. (giving them the finger)

I think they'll get the message.[winking]
 
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BlueVelvetFog

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People who get angry at zipper merging are part of the problem. If you don't like people going in front of you then get in the open lane and go to the end yourself.

Leaving hundreds of yards of a perfectly usable lane open is a great way to prevent traffic!
Apparently some of the do-good truck drivers never got this memo—as I saw one on 64 blocking off the entire right lane about 1/2 mile from where everyone had to funnel into the left lane
 

John Henry

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We have a lot of tourist down here from all over the country. The worst seem to be from New England with Massachusetts (probably Boston) being the worst of the worst
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My #1 pet peeve is inconsiderate people. Living in E. Ky tries my patience to the limit as well as on the interstate where people are oblivious to what's going on around them and behind them.

I've been working on my road rage for years and sometimes I lose the battle and end up doing something that scares my wife, who scares easily anyway. It's not the fact that they are slowing me down that makes me mad, but the fact that someone can be so inconsiderate to other people.

I have to remind myself not to react to how idiots are or I become one.
 

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California drivers may shoot other drivers on the highway but I find them to be rather courteous behind the wheel in Orange County. Michigan otoh...
 

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Waiting until the lane starts to close and doing a zipper-type merge (left-right-left-right, etc) allows for the most efficient flow of traffic. The problems occur when...
1. people get over before the merge point, causing unnecessary slow down
2. people in the main lane (the one being merged into) don't allow ONE car in, thus breaking the zipper
3. people merging try to get in front of someone that has already allowed a car in, basically doing the mirror of #2 and breaking the zipper

^^^^This^^^
 

BlueVelvetFog

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How about the aggressive on-rampers? You’re already on the expressway, and the on ramping car just hits the gas expecting you to get out of the way. No. Now I just act like they’re not there.
 
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Glenn's Take

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It only took me an hour and a half to get home from 2 exits away on the Snyder tonight. It was really great.
 

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I'm not as amped up these days. If you're driving slow in the fast lane, you will either have my grill in your rearview or someone else's and most of the time, your mission to police the left lane will fail because the interstates down here are fairly open and you can usually go all the way right to get around people.

Plus everyone in Florida drives around while cleaning a gun so you may gesture or yell but unless you want to get shot in the face, best to keep yourself in the car and worry about other ****.
 

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How about the aggressive on-rampers? You’re already on the expressway, and the on ramping car just hits the gas expecting you to get out of the way. No. Now I just act like they’re not there.
So you are one of those guys that has an open lane on the left but don’t get over to allow merging traffic from the ramp on?
 

UKnCincy_rivals

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So you are one of those guys that has an open lane on the left but don’t get over to allow merging traffic from the ramp on?

The driver on the expressway has right of way. If there’s space to move over, that’s a courtesy they can extend to merging traffic if they choose but they are not obligated to. Personally, I see no reason not to move over if there’s room.

However, the merging driver is the only one who is obligated to yield. It’s the responsibility of the merging driver to adjust the speed / timing of their entry so that they fit into an open spot.

If someone merges in a way that forces a driver on the expressway to move out of the way or slow down, then it is the merging driver who is being rude and not the driver on the expressway.
 

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The driver on the expressway has right of way. If there’s space to move over, that’s a courtesy they can extend to merging traffic if they choose but they are not obligated to. Personally, I see no reason not to move over if there’s room.

However, the merging driver is the only one who is obligated to yield. It’s the responsibility of the merging driver to adjust the speed / timing of their entry so that they fit into an open spot.

If someone merges in a way that forces a driver on the expressway to move out of the way or slow down, then it is the merging driver who is being rude and not the driver on the expressway.
It’s a courtesy, that’s all.
 
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How about the aggressive on-rampers? You’re already on the expressway, and the on ramping car just hits the gas expecting you to get out of the way. No. Now I just act like they’re not there.
I prefer this to people who slow way down or stop on an entrance ramp risking a rear end job or making it harder for you to enter behind them as you're going so slow. I mean you are supposed to be accelerating on an on-ramp. And yes, I'm an aggressive on-ramper. What's so hard about letting up on the gas to let someone in?
 
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However, the merging driver is the only one who is obligated to yield. It’s the responsibility of the merging driver to adjust the speed / timing of their entry so that they fit into an open spot..
Agree. Which is why I often accelerate hard to fit in.
 
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I mean more traffic gets further forward using all lanes for as long as possible. Helps people behind you to get off at their exit sooner.

Right. In Louisville, people will come to a complete stop at the end of the ramp from 264 onto 65 North, despite having well over half a mile until their lane ends. So instead of a half mile line of cars in that merging lane, the half mile line of cars back up past the 65 South and Preston highway exits and sometimes all the way onto 264 itself, all because dumbasses don't use the road as it was designed to be used.
 

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So you are one of those guys that has an open lane on the left but don’t get over to allow merging traffic from the ramp on?
If I’m going “expressway speed”, and I’m being “overtaken” by an aggressive on-ramper, it’s up to them to regulate speed. It’s not up to me to turn my head around to make sure I can move over in a split second because Ricky Bobby wants to get on I-5 in a hurry. That’s on him.
 
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The driver on the expressway has right of way. If there’s space to move over, that’s a courtesy they can extend to merging traffic if they choose but they are not obligated to. Personally, I see no reason not to move over if there’s room.

However, the merging driver is the only one who is obligated to yield. It’s the responsibility of the merging driver to adjust the speed / timing of their entry so that they fit into an open spot.

If someone merges in a way that forces a driver on the expressway to move out of the way or slow down, then it is the merging driver who is being rude and not the driver on the expressway.
If there's an open lane OR you see an oncoming onramp with a solid line of cars heading towards a merge point and you don't get over, you're a dumbass.
 

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My wife is all I have to listen to after giving the stupid outside my car a piece of my mind. The wife tells me "What good did that do you?" I tell her; :It made me feel good." Then it's on...
 

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If there's an open lane OR you see an oncoming onramp with a solid line of cars heading towards a merge point and you don't get over, you're a dumbass.
I agree with this. Most of the time I see people wanting to get on and they’re being aware that they need to yield and being safe —I’ll totally make room for them. It gives me time to react and move over accordingly.

If I’m on an expressway doing 70, and some dude flies off a cloverleaf into the xway doing 75..tough break
 
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I agree with this. Most of the time I see people wanting to get on and they’re being aware that they need to yield and being safe —I’ll totally make room for them. It gives me time to react and move over accordingly.

If I’m on an expressway doing 70, and some dude flies off a cloverleaf into the xway doing 75..tough break
Well, the rule is to get up to expressway speed to merge more easily. I always try to be courteous and move over, but I'm rarely in the extreme right lane unless I'm preparing to exit.
 

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Well, the rule is to get up to expressway speed to merge more easily. I always try to be courteous and move over, but I'm rarely in the extreme right lane unless I'm preparing to exit.
I’m in the right lane because I don’t want to be a slowazz in the left lane
 
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Any suggestions on how to turn the tables on the ******* drivers out there who: (1) intentionally go/stay slow in the left lane preventing faster motorists from going on or (2) the jerk(s) who do not merge into line when a closed lane is ahead and go all the way to the front and force themselves in.

Encountered examples of both today. Cussing out, speeding past and giving the finger accomplishes nothing. These folks need/deserve to be scared to death after pulling stunts like these.
Well you should learn how to drive if you think point #2 in inconsiderate or discourteous.

And how about you stop being such an ******* by giving people the finger and cussing them out? Going to get yourself shot one of these days doing that stupid ****.

Well actually maybe you should keep doing it then, maybe the road rage incident will mean one less idiot and bad driver on the road.