I know what you guys mean. Dad passed away twenty two years ago now. Quit smoking for 25 years then got lung cancer. I'm still dealing with that all this time later.
Three weeks ago we learned my wife's sister in law ( co-sister for me?) Has had a relapse of cancer she's been in remission on for 8, 9 years....plus a different type. Also scirosis of the liver (non drinker)....she's 51, 52..... awful young.
Life's short, sometime unfair.
Cancer is a monster.