Guilt tipping

rick64

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Tipping has really gotten crazy. I walk in to pickup my to go order. Hand the cashier my card and they spin the scanner around to me to enter the tip amount. Tip??!! For simply handing me my bag of food??
 

SenseMaker_Cats

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I always tip when picking up. Often times there’s not a designated takeout person. So a waiter waitress has to do it. I don’t tip as much but I do tip. Full disclosure, my daughter used to do that and she didn’t like it when they started doing pickup orders. Sometimes it would cause her to not be able give as good of service as she would have liked to the folks that were dining in. Long story a little shorter. If several people picked up and DIDNT tip, it cost her money.
 

HymanKaplan

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You're tipping the server, that has to put all that together. Remember, they're making less than minimum wage, and that takes time. Tips are pretty much how they make a living.

Cooks are paid better than servers.
 

StuBlue270_uk

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The worst is buying stadium foods at sporting events. Food is already overpriced and usually not the greatest because it's mass produced and sits under a heat lamp for who knows how long. Nevertheless, I tip more often then not.
 

Col. Angus

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You're tipping the server, that has to put all that together.
I’m giving somebody money to put food in a sack for me?

No Way Smh GIF by MOODMAN


I’ll give em a tip… get a job that pays at least minimum wage. I’ll go in there and sack that shiit myself before I give somebody $5-10 to do it.

Now if I park far away and they gotta walk it out to me and sweat a little on the journey I’ll toss em a few quarters out the window, couple of asss pennies mixed in.
 

Col. Angus

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We'll have to agree to disagree.
Or do we?

If ya want me to be totally honest and if ya promise to not tell anybody I’m a tipping biitch. Never turn it down. Feel guilty. Also always round up when asked. Don’t care the charity. Could be “Balls for Girls” supporting free sex change surgery for transgender rights and I wouldn’t care. Don’t even look or ask anymore.

Probably why I live check to check. Ya get what ya give and shiit like that. Karma. I’m bankin some of my retirement on it.

Michael Buble Gotcha GIF by bubly
 
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TheGyeroMan

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I tip a minimum of 25%. Even my grandfather, who spent most of his life poor, was always a generous tipper. It seems to me to be a very Christian approach to life.
 
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cole@854

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I am blessed and tip well on the usual services, plus a buck or two on the new way from businesses to grab a buck or two from suckers like me. And yes, I also round up at McD's.
 
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tcurtis75

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I thought tipping was for being waited on. This is getting expensive.
You don't go to the kitchen and box it up yourself. Someone brings it out to you. By definition that is being waited on. While it isn't like eating in, you are still being waited on. I don't tip as much as I do when dining in, but that to me is worth a couple bucks. The only place I don't tip is a concession stand for the most part. I tip a buck or two at chipotle, subway, jersey mikes, etc.
 

80 Proof

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You should tip to go orders, just as you would if you were dining in.

Cheap bas+ards...
You should definitely tip to-go orders, but no need to tip like you were dining in. They aren't refilling my drink, bringing me condiments, cleaning up my table, or dealing with my kids.

Ill usually go 10% on to-go, and 15% upwards on dining in.
 

UK-Chulo

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I tip for any meal out I get. Took the wife for a massage last week and find out they are a no-tipping business. That was a change. Plus gave a discount if paying in cash.
 

JumperJack.

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You don't go to the kitchen and box it up yourself. Someone brings it out to you. By definition that is being waited on.
You think this is the same as someone busting their *** to take care of a table for 45 minutes or an hour? It’s not the same. As others have said it’s good to give something, but these are not equal.
 
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bluthruandthru

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You think this is the same as someone busting their *** to take care of a table for 45 minutes or an hour? It’s not the same. As others have said it’s good to give something, but these are not equal.
Do you get stress dreams of being quadruple sat?
 

SkyPrince

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The worst is buying stadium foods at sporting events. Food is already overpriced and usually not the greatest because it's mass produced and sits under a heat lamp for who knows how long. Nevertheless, I tip more often then not.
A lot of stadium workers cannot accept tips.
Just depends on who has the contract for concessions.
In some cases the workers are actually classified as " volunteers" instead of employees.
 

tcurtis75

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You think this is the same as someone busting their *** to take care of a table for 45 minutes or an hour? It’s not the same. As others have said it’s good to give something, but these are not equal.
Did you even read my post? I specifically said that it isn't the same as dining in but you said tipping is being waited on. Someone bringing you out a to go order and giving it to you is still being waited on. If you don't want to tip for that, then you shouldn't have phrased your initial post differently. That's on you.
 

JamesIII

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I try to do 21% to 25%, I’m poor but also try to help out other poor people.

Edited to add that I only tip the following places: Dine in server, take out server, my barber, Uber/Lyft, the oil change guys, and delivery of food.
 
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tcurtis75

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waiter - noun

wait·er ˈwā-tər

Synonyms of waiter
1
: one that waits on another
especially : a person who waits tables (as in a restaurant)
Again, someone is carrying the food to you while you wait either sitting in a car or at a table/bar. That is waiting on you. It is a simple concept. You just can't admit you phrased your initial post wrong. Again, that is on you.

To be "waited on" means to have someone else serve you, fulfilling your needs and providing attentive service, such as taking your order at a restaurant or attending to personal requests.

To go orders fulfill the terms of being waited on.
 

JumperJack.

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Again, someone is carrying the food to you while you wait either sitting in a car or at a table/bar. That is waiting on you. It is a simple concept.
This is nonsense. Do you tip the person at the drive through window? Or the person who carried the food to them to then hand to you? Have you ever? No, because it’s a ludicrously stupid notion. Handing me the food I bought is what they’re paid to do.

It’s not remotely the same as what a waiter at a table does. Your failure to grasp this is your problem.

As I said (and you have purposely ignored) I don’t mind to give a couple bucks to somebody who’s being pulled away from actually waiting a table to assist me, but they are not the same thing.
 

tcurtis75

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This is nonsense. Do you tip the person at the drive through window? Or the person who carried the food to them to then hand to you? Have you ever? No, because it’s a ludicrously stupid notion. Handing me the food I bought is what they’re paid to do.

It’s not remotely the same as what a waiter at a table does. Your failure to grasp this is your problem.

As I said (and you have purposely ignored) I don’t mind to give a couple bucks to somebody who’s being pulled away from actually waiting a table to assist me, but they are not the same thing.
You weren't arguing that it was the same as a waiter. You said they weren't waiting on you and they were. Fast food and to go orders from a restaurant aren't the same thing. Fast food workers make at least minimum wage. Those delivering the to go orders in a sit down restaurant are still waiters. They just happened to be assigned the to go area for that shift. They make a couple bucks an hour because they are waiters regardless of what their assignment is so for that particular reason so they still depend on the tips. You can change your argument all you want but those people are still waiting on you when you continually claim they aren't. I agree it is nonsense. It is nonsense that you can't admit you are wrong in your initial post.
 

BankerCat12

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Carryout at a place like Chipotle or McCallisters. I will tip $1. half the time the order is not correct and if thats the case, the next time is no tip.

Carryout at Harry's etc, I tip 10%.

20-25% dine in

Starbucks cant get a tip from me when I use my app in the drive thru

Went to France last fall and it was great. Food cheaper than here and they dont want tips. Its an insult over 5%.
 

paulcalhoun_rivals397471

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You're tipping the server, that has to put all that together. Remember, they're making less than minimum wage, and that takes time. Tips are pretty much how they make a living.

Cooks are paid better than servers.
If they don't get it in tips employers would have to pay them properly or they wouldn't have anybody to do it. I'm not tipping for pickup. Do you tip the window at fast food restaurants?
 
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