I think my wife just suffered a miscarriage

ScWildthing61

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She just started bleeding out all of a sudden tonight(was 8 weeks pregnant), had to clean up the blood and had to bag up and throw out what I think would've been our child this coming march(that is a memory I can now never erase or suppress) my wife was crying uncontrollably and there was nothing I could do for her, she is alive and aside from the emotion of losing her unborn child doing well, I'm sorry for presenting this in such a "raw" manner to those on here whose sensibilities it upsets, but I needed to get these thoughts out.

I would like to hear from everyone on here especially the ladies on here be it if you had kids or also if you've had to endure these unfortunate circumstances in your lives😥😪
 
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She just started bleeding out all of a sudden tonight(was 8 weeks pregnant), had to clean up the blood and had to bag up and throw out what I think would've been our child this coming march(that is a memory I can now never erase or suppress) my wife was crying uncontrollably and there was nothing I could do for her, she is alive and aside from the emotion of losing her unborn child doing well, I'm sorry for presenting this in such a "raw" manner to those on here whose sensibilities it upsets, but I needed to get these thoughts out.

I would like to hear from everyone on here especially the ladies on here be it if you had kids or also if you've had to endure these unfortunate circumstances in your lives😥😪
I have experienced one myself with my wife. Take it one day at the time and get some counseling if needed. Be open to talk to your wife.
 
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It happened twice for us before we had our first daughter - the last only a year or so before my wife became pregnant with our oldest. She was basically put on bed rest for the majority of that 1st pregnancy. It was terribly sad for both of us and I’m so very sorry you guys are having to experience it. You wont forget but you have to just keep going. For us, the pain and disappointment faded somewhat once we had our first.
 

be cocky

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it was for a reason, the human body recognizes issues with a non biased approach. you both will get through this. just remember this a completely natural occurrence. be strong for her!
 
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God knows the reason why, as unfathomable as it is to you, a reason could exist. This is where faith becomes so important. I pray you and your wife find the faith in God needed on this journey.
 
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GamecockMike

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Sad to hear,my friends wife had one and on their next attempt,he said the doctor sewed up her uterus,I know she had a stitch or 2 to keep her from doing it again.they didn’t take it out till she was in labor.
 

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She just started bleeding out all of a sudden tonight(was 8 weeks pregnant), had to clean up the blood and had to bag up and throw out what I think would've been our child this coming march(that is a memory I can now never erase or suppress) my wife was crying uncontrollably and there was nothing I could do for her, she is alive and aside from the emotion of losing her unborn child doing well, I'm sorry for presenting this in such a "raw" manner to those on here whose sensibilities it upsets, but I needed to get these thoughts out.

I would like to hear from everyone on here especially the ladies on here be it if you had kids or also if you've had to endure these unfortunate circumstances in your lives😥😪
Prayers out to you guys.
 

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I pray that what Peter wrote in his 2nd epistle will be granted to ya'll.
"Grace and Peace be MULTIPLIED to you through the knowledge of God and of Jesus our Lord."
 
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My wife and I went over a week ago to our 2nd ultrasound. We found out that day that there was no heartbeat. The week prior, we saw a heartbeat. This was our 3rd miscarriage in a row. They have all been difficult, but this one was very hard as one week you see a picture of the heartbeat, and the next it's gone. We've been going to a specialist but it doesn't make it any easier. I find myself seeing people I grew up with having children left and right and can't help but feel angry and bitter at seeing others having success. Especially, when you've done all the testing and being careful and cautious of everything you do to help you conceive a child.
 

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My wife and I went over a week ago to our 2nd ultrasound. We found out that day that there was no heartbeat. The week prior, we saw a heartbeat. This was our 3rd miscarriage in a row. They have all been difficult, but this one was very hard as one week you see a picture of the heartbeat, and the next it's gone. We've been going to a specialist but it doesn't make it any easier. I find myself seeing people I grew up with having children left and right and can't help but feel angry and bitter at seeing others having success. Especially, when you've done all the testing and being careful and cautious of everything you do to help you conceive a child.
So sorry for your loss. I hope you will be successful soon.
 
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She just started bleeding out all of a sudden tonight(was 8 weeks pregnant), had to clean up the blood and had to bag up and throw out what I think would've been our child this coming march(that is a memory I can now never erase or suppress) my wife was crying uncontrollably and there was nothing I could do for her, she is alive and aside from the emotion of losing her unborn child doing well, I'm sorry for presenting this in such a "raw" manner to those on here whose sensibilities it upsets, but I needed to get these thoughts out.

I would like to hear from everyone on here especially the ladies on here be it if you had kids or also if you've had to endure these unfortunate circumstances in your lives😥😪
Peace be with you.

Always remember, there is no right/wrong way to grieve. It is different for everyone. However the both of you grieve is the "right" way for you.
 
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She just started bleeding out all of a sudden tonight(was 8 weeks pregnant), had to clean up the blood and had to bag up and throw out what I think would've been our child this coming march(that is a memory I can now never erase or suppress) my wife was crying uncontrollably and there was nothing I could do for her, she is alive and aside from the emotion of losing her unborn child doing well, I'm sorry for presenting this in such a "raw" manner to those on here whose sensibilities it upsets, but I needed to get these thoughts out.

I would like to hear from everyone on here especially the ladies on here be it if you had kids or also if you've had to endure these unfortunate circumstances in your lives😥😪
Please let us know how her checkup went. Prayers.
 
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