For the manual drivers they at least have manual shift mode in a lot of the automatic transmissions in many vehicles. We have them in both of our SUVs. I have probably tried it once. It's not the same, but it at least will let you feel like you are driving a manual. Just need a dummy clutch pedal added. [laughing]
Problem is not all AT with manual modes are created equal. Many have significant delays between when you pull the paddle and when it actually shifts. And many won’t permanently hold the gear you select. So you could downshift to get the revs up, but after a few seconds it may automatically shift back up to a higher gear.
Now there are some that are very good, but even for those that shift fast and give you total control over the gear selection, it’s still not the same. At least not if you’re someone who’s into driving for driving’s sake.
An anolgy might be recording drums. One option would be to sit down and actually play a set into some microphones. Another option would be to get some recording software that has a bunch of pre-recorded loops. Both options can get you a similar result for basic drumming, but software is not nearly as engaging if you enjoy playing the drums. In one situation you’re simply clicking a mouse, while in the other, you’re having to coordinate the actions of all four limbs.
It’s the same with driving a stick if you’re into driving. It’s a much more satisfying and engaging experience to slow for a corner and use both arms and both legs to execute a couple of heel toe downshifts. With an automatic, even a good one, you’re just clicking buttons.
Unfortunately, it seems like manuals are doomed for extinction.