I could see both sides of this issue very easily. Seems like an unfortunate situation for all involved. And it also seems that, if this thing went the distance, and the coach got dismissed for this------ the headline could also eventually show up as, "School District 'Cancels' Baseball Coach for Enforcing Team Rules." However, if it were me, I feel that my response would be like John Wooden when Bill Walton refused to cut his hair for UCLA.
"Bill, I completely understand you wanting to stick with your principles and not wanting to cut your hair. That is an admirable quality to have in a person these days...........we're going to miss you."