What kind of places do you guys live where you are "confronted over your non-belief?"
Were they wearing arm bands as I've never in my life lived near the religious police? You'd be amazed at how refreshing it is to live and be around people that mind their own GD business.
I lived in Hardin County, Kentucky, for about 15 years. My wife and I jokingly referred to it as the holy land of Kentucky.
In the time I lived there I was:
1. Accosted in Kroger and offered condescending prayers by a random woman for wearing a Slayer shirt that displayed an album cover from 1983.
2. Had a male coworker leave a religious book on my desk with a handwritten note damning me to hell because I didn’t go to church.
3. Had a former neighbor yell at me to turn down my “evil” music while I was grilling one summer afternoon. I was listening to 90s Metallica, not exactly extreme metal by any stretch.
4. Had a former colleague who repeatedly invited us to her church when we first moved to the area. I always respectfully declined without giving a reason. When she found out I didn’t buy into the story she never spoke to me again the rest of the time we worked together and used to talk **** about me behind my back. I never did a thing to this person outside of not being a southern Baptist.
5. Wife was called a “Devil worshiper” by a teenage coworker for wearing a Guns N’ Roses shirt.
6. Had a boss who used to schedule me every Sunday because I didn’t “worship” as if I also didn’t enjoy a Sunday off.
When I moved there, I was a quiet agnostic. By the time I left, I was fiercely anti religion because the “believers” routinely disrespected my non-belief while expecting me to respect their belief. Respect is a two-way street.