Oh! Sorry to know you think of it that way.
So you’re not interested in having an atheist for a best friend? You couldn’t overlook your minor differences, but instead relish the vastness of common ground, and get along swimmingly?
You would be surprised. Oftentimes the sects of Christianity are hostile to other sects, much less nonbelievers.
I was raised Catholic. My wife was raised extremely rural southern Baptist. I went to church with her a few times when we were dating. It was awful. Sermons sound like wrestling promos and it’s more fear and theatrics than substance. Same messgae every week: Magic creek or hell.
There were several older members of her extended family that refused to attend our wedding and pretty much quit speaking to us (her) entirely because she didn’t marry inside her religion and and my Catholic ritual baptism didn’t transfer or something.
Skip forward 20 years, and I’m an agnostic teetering on atheism and she’s a militant atheist who would argue her religious upbringing was borderline abusive because they just got yelled at about hell for several hours a week. Never messages of god’s love. Just hell. All hell. All the time. Hell.
Several of those relatives who condemned our marriage are now dead. We went to zero of their funerals because if they couldn’t be good to us while they were alive, why should we give a **** if they died.
This was also another clue for me that religion is likely ********. We were all seemingly “same team” but minor theological differences apparently made us enemies to the point blood relatives shunned us from the family.