This is big time sports. Players will be both praised and criticized more than they should. If I had a family member that played big time sports and my skin was too thin to handle the criticism ( it is ) , then I would not read message boards . Especially after they played like crap .I am not sure why I have to explain this. It is form, not function.
Have you ever had a family member play big time sports? A son? If I have to explain further, it probably is not worth the attempt. Explaining how to show respect is something that probably cannot be accomplished in a message board post for some one who does not understand.