I agree with your overall point of it not being a bad loss, but also not necessarily a "good loss". Your point above gives me hesitation a bit though. I want to believe that is true, but it's pretty much been the same story with these same players for the last 2-3 seasons- close losses that we can learn and grow from. I did like that we showed fight in coming back and giving ourselves a chance at the end, but this is the year these guys should be past games where they lose, but grow and get better. It's go time for this group of guys (Nance, Buie, Beran, Young, etc.). They either are winning games like this or they'll run out of time at NU and never get over that hump.
I still believe in this team and think we may have something good, but the time for growth in games we lose is pretty much over for this particular group. Either win or get off the pot.