Where Would You Like To Live?

Where Would You Like To Live?


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Each has positives and negatives.

The city life has the advantages of being able to get by with walking or taking a bus/rail/subway wherever you need to go and there tends to be a lot of places nearby that are easy to get to. There are lots of entertainment choices and businesses. Some issues with it are population congestion, pollution, crime, and housing is usually limited to apartments/condos/old attached houses.

The suburbs offer mostly houses ranging from starter homes to mansions. Something for just about everyone. You can usually get to just about anywhere in the city within 20-30 minutes. There are plenty of entertainment choices, but you pretty much have to own your own vehicle. The schools in the suburbs are probably the best of all the areas. There is crime, but not nearly as bad as the city.

The country offers less population allowing for larger areas of land per houses. It is much more peaceful with very little crime. You can go out hunting, fishing, or grow your own food. It tends to be a long drive 30+ minutes to get to most of the entertainment options. Not all homes have the same utilities offered by the suburban areas.

The wilderness takes you back to life similar to what it was like for the pioneers of our country. You pretty much live by yourself with no one to bother you. You have so much nature to explore that hasn't been adversely affected by man. You pretty much have to live off the land so hunting and foraging are required. You are cutoff from the outside world so any type of emergency and your SOL.

Those are just some positives and negatives just thrown in there off the top of my head. So excuse anything you think I left out. Me personally, I have lived in the suburbs all my life. I would prefer to have some land and have less neighbors, but I don't want to do without things like affordable high speed internet, city water, and entertainment options that don't take 30 minutes or more to get to. I also don't want to live in an apartment/condo with neighbors right up next to you. So I would likely always be in the suburbs.
 
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Sorry didn't put that as an option. Was thinking more of places like Kentucky. I don't know if you can edit a poll or I would add other.
 

Pope John Wall II

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I love the varied aspects of metropolitan living. It's impossible to get bored in the city. Unfortunately, most humans that live in urban areas are intolerable shitbags.

I grew up in an area where the only entertainment for youth was either sports or heroin, and have seen the county's condition deteriorate since I was younger. Rural areas without much infrastructure are deadends.

Give me suburban Vermont as a permanent residence and I'm content. Close enough to enjoy the city, far enough away to enjoy some sort of privacy (preferably with a small plot of owned land instead of the McNeighborhoods associated with the term Suburbs).
 

dgtatu01

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If you have a family and a degree, gotta be the suburbs. You can find a job, your kids have a little room to spread out, and there is plenty of entertainment.
 

MegaBlue05

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The outskirts of the suburbs but not deep in the country.

I don't really care for neighbors, but I don't want to be 30 minutes away from the grocery store.
 

BlueVelvetFog

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Yep, would love to just disappear into northern Ontario.
 

Crushgroove

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I live in Fort Myers and im in extreme South Fort Myers 5 minutes from Sanibel. I want to live no where else
My in-laws just retired there last summer. I drove them down and helped them move in. Going out on a limb here, based on my 2-day experience with Ft. Meyers, and saying you're very, very, very old. My God, that town was like living in the movie "Cocoon."
 

wildcatadam6

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There are only two or three places I'd leave Lexington for. All would require a job opportunity too good to pass up.

Nashville
Charleston, SC
Denver area

Would choose the suburbs.

Also like small towns. Access to high speed internet and whatnot is important.
 
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GrandePdre

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I could live in Seattle, Portland, or San Diego despite the liberal politicking there. Amazing scenery.

Kailua, Oahu, Hawaii if money was no object.
 
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Ron Mehico

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If we're talking about just me and my wife, the city for sure. But would need a lot of money to buy something nice and make it worth it. But with us about to start a family soon the suburbs is where we are, and it seems like a good fit, the kid can ride around in the neighborhood on his bike and I'm not scared of him being assaulted by a hobo.
 

LineSkiCat14

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The city (top20 in size at least) wears on you. After 4 years living in NYC and dealing with the people, lines, traffic, headaches.. you fall out of love with it after a while.
 

LineSkiCat14

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Yearning for that isolated Unabomber lifestyle. Impressed.

I continually whittle down the list of people I care to see. By the time I'm 35 it will be me and a few dogs.

You seen the movie Shooter with Marky Mark? That's the life I want. I mean, I'm kind of a *****, certainly compared to MM.. so it'd be a much sadder picture..
 
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numberonedad

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My in-laws just retired there last summer. I drove them down and helped them move in. Going out on a limb here, based on my 2-day experience with Ft. Meyers, and saying you're very, very, very old. My God, that town was like living in the movie "Cocoon."
Actually, im not VERY old, just in my 50's. Love to fish, i go at least 5 days a week, and love the weather. And also, if you live here there is a TON to do for younger people, you just have to find what's going on
 
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ukfan03

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My dream is to retire and buy a house on a good bass fishing lake in the south.
 

Tskware

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burbs for me, next to or real close to one or more really fine golf courses. :sunglasses:

Actually would prefer the mountains than the beach, e.g., would rather live in Asheville than Myrtle Beach.
 

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I love the varied aspects of metropolitan living. It's impossible to get bored in the city. Unfortunately, most humans that live in urban areas are intolerable shitbags.

I grew up in an area where the only entertainment for youth was either sports or heroin, and have seen the county's condition deteriorate since I was younger. Rural areas without much infrastructure are deadends.

Give me suburban Vermont as a permanent residence and I'm content. Close enough to enjoy the city, far enough away to enjoy some sort of privacy (preferably with a small plot of owned land instead of the McNeighborhoods associated with the term Suburbs).

Sounds like we experienced the same things.

I hated living in rural areas and can't stand the country life. I need entertainment. I need to be able to eat at a decent restaurant or get an actual decent cup of coffee ir have legitimate options to buy stuff without driving two hours.

The downside of the city (some cities) is criminal activity, terrible areas you don't want to end up, harder to buy a nice house and you're stuck in some horrendous traffic every day.
 
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LineSkiCat14

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I want to fish.. But have never done it. Don't even know the first step. But it feels like something I could be good at while crushing a case of Miller Low-lifes.

If I ever get this lake/mountain house I'm gonna try ice fishing too.
 
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