Funny I just finished up this cycle with youth. Quite the opposite, actually. I discussed some of the challenges and temptations they are going to face, and are facing. We discussed porn, sexting, oral and anal sex, etc. I taught them that what God desires from us is purity until marriage, and that giving your partner the gift of noone to compare to, is abnormal in today's culture and something that would be indescribable to your future spouse, among other things
We discussed how far was ok, and how far wasn't. But we also talked about mistakes to temptations do happen, and what to do if that were to happen.
Do I expect them all to remain pure? Absolutely not. Do I want them attempting to honor God? Absolutely. That's what I expect of my kids and stepkids as well. I think my girls are better behaved than my boys. I love them all the same.
WE DON'T PLAY CHURCH!