So, we just bought a washer and dryer three days ago......now she is showing me washers and dryers on the internet. Told her I don't care about them because we just bought them and now I'm a terrible person for not wanting to look.
If she does one thing that I haven't seen mentioned on here and drives me nuts.....we cannot go almost anywhere by ourselves. She HAS to have a member of her family with us at all times. Even something as benign as going to the grocery store, a sister, niece, parent...someone is always in tow....and not by choice, most of them think its weird as well.
Wait a second, so every single time you guys have gone to the store to pick something up or go out some where for a task you have not only had to do it with your wife but you had to do it with an in-law as well? WTF? Am I reading that correctly? That sounds absolutely horrific. Seriously, that's basically a deal breaker. I'm barely able to wrap my mind around it.
No, your "explanation" just made it worse. Pretty sure you should get a divorce.Okay...from the number of comments received on this, i suppose this does require a bit of clarification on my part.
This is more of a weekend thing than during the week as I travel a good deal for work, (who knows what goes on when I'm not there)
But I guess that's what makes it all the more frustrating when I get home on thurs / Friday, there are things that need to be done, and its sometimes a struggle to get anything done with others in tow, with their own agendas built in.
And the fact she has a GIANT family (8 siblings, a dozen or more nieces / nephews, plus her parents) so theres always a pool of candidates to choose from or force into.
Heck I see her family more in a single weekend than I do mine in a couple years.
Or am I just being selfish? (I don't really think so, just put it out there)
Pretty sure you should get a divorce.
Okay...from the number of comments received on this, i suppose this does require a bit of clarification on my part.
This is more of a weekend thing than during the week as I travel a good deal for work, (who knows what goes on when I'm not there)
But I guess that's what makes it all the more frustrating when I get home on thurs / Friday, there are things that need to be done, and its sometimes a struggle to get anything done with others in tow, with their own agendas built in.
And the fact she has a GIANT family (8 siblings, a dozen or more nieces / nephews, plus her parents) so theres always a pool of candidates to choose from or force into.
Heck I see her family more in a single weekend than I do mine in a couple years.
Or am I just being selfish? (I don't really think so, just put it out there)
Nothing is ever enough. Buying her Disney annual passes was the dumbest thing I have done. Of course, did it to try and satisfy her. It's an impossible endeavor.
She was bitching at me for not wanting to go to a state park or a short trip on July 4th weekend. I finally told her to STFU and stop being a whiny brat. That went over well.
Just to give you an idea.
August- beach trip
Labor Day Weekend- trip to Disney
Fall break- trip to Disney
Novemeber- she goes on a girl's trip to Disney with her family
Christmas- trip to Disney
Yeah, another trip seemed brilliant. I'm at my breaking point.
My buddy is taking his family to celebrate his 20th year anniversary at Disney in Sept for 5 nights. Staying on property with discounted hotel rooms, tickets to Universal and Disney and the Flight: $2800. Yikes...I will get him and his wife a nice gift.Nothing is ever enough. Buying her Disney annual passes was the dumbest thing I have done. Of course, did it to try and satisfy her. It's an impossible endeavor.
She was bitching at me for not wanting to go to a state park or a short trip on July 4th weekend. I finally told her to STFU and stop being a whiny brat. That went over well.
Just to give you an idea.
August- beach trip
Labor Day Weekend- trip to Disney
Fall break- trip to Disney
Novemeber- she goes on a girl's trip to Disney with her family
Christmas- trip to Disney
Yeah, another trip seemed brilliant. I'm at my breaking point.
My sister does this. We go on a beach vacation every year with my mom and dad and her family. She is one of the worst helicopter parents in all the land. My brother-in-law bless his heart could write 15-16 paragraphs in this thread. My wife even feels sorry for him. I just laugh because when we were all out drinking after their rehearsal dinner and my dad told him that even if he left tonight he would never be mad or hold it against him, but if he ever left after saying those vows there would be trouble.![]()
Preaching to the choir on these two. The medical one drives me nuts. I've told her a million times to stop googling all of this BS about medical stuff. All it does is freak her out when it's nothing and wastes a trip to the doctor. Time after time!
The secondary drowning thing must be one of those typical "I saw this on a shared facebook post so now I will let it consume me" type things.
She goes to Disney three times a year?
I mean does she not want to switch it up, that's 4 damn disney trips in a year. That's like 20K for Disney. What the hell is she doing there? This thread is good for my marriage.
Or he's getting 60 bj's a month and that's why he puts up with itOr GGCAT is as much a nut as she is for putting up with that ****.
For real. Some of you all are straight up married to some crazy people.I mean does she not want to switch it up, that's 4 damn disney trips in a year. That's like 20K for Disney. What the hell is she doing there? This thread is good for my marriage.
For real. Some of you all are straight up married to some crazy people.
Nothing is ever enough. Buying her Disney annual passes was the dumbest thing I have done. Of course, did it to try and satisfy her. It's an impossible endeavor.
She was bitching at me for not wanting to go to a state park or a short trip on July 4th weekend. I finally told her to STFU and stop being a whiny brat. That went over well.
Just to give you an idea.
August- beach trip
Labor Day Weekend- trip to Disney
Fall break- trip to Disney
Novemeber- she goes on a girl's trip to Disney with her family
Christmas- trip to Disney
Yeah, another trip seemed brilliant. I'm at my breaking point.
I doubt it. Too many family members always around.Or he's getting 60 bj's a month and that's why he puts up with it
Dude, is your wife's butthole alarmingly fresh and clean? Almost like she bleached it?
She never fills up her gas tank. It will be on empty and she will always ask me to go put gas in her car.
Never loads the dishwasher. Leaves the dishes in the sink but then bitches that I am not loading the dishwasher correctly.
I can't really complain. My girl is pretty awesome and will put out anytime I want so I can live with the other stuff.
I travel a lot for work so I meet a whole lot of people, work with them closely for a few months, and then move on. One thing I've found is that there are "Disney people" out there who either don't have kids or have kids who are grown, but still go to Disney like 4 times per year. Overall, I'd say 75% of them are really wacky. But I have met a few that are completely normal, just love them some Disney world.
Dude, is your wife's butthole alarmingly fresh and clean? Almost like she bleached it?