It amazes me how it is common place for everyone to blame refs after games. I'm pretty sure we teach kids to NOT blame them. I think it sets a bad example. Someone loses a game and then the next day all over the tv people are pointing towards the refs. Maybe you should've made that free throw. Maybe you shouldn't of committed that error. Maybe you should've caught that pass. Don't leave it in their hands. Grow up and quit pointing the finger at someone else.