Dating much younger women
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7 days a week of Barre and HIIT workouts...pretty much crazy stuff.
I go to the gym 5-7 days a week and her HIIT workouts whoop my a$$...it is stupid
good on you, man. Hope you all compete against each other in living and both make it past 100.
My wife and I are both 41. She has aged incredibly well and is in fantastic shape. It actually keeps me on my game as well.
Two thoughts:
1) if you’re north of 40, you better make some money if you want a dime piece to be interested. Just the reality.
2). Marriage is really for the birds. If you don’t want kids, there is no point. If I got divorced tomorrow, I would go the sugar baby route. I’d find 2 25 year old chicks who not only knew about each other, but also didn’t care and would occasionally play together. Don’t care how it’s perceived, that’s what I’d do. I would never get married again...and I actually have a pretty good wife/marriage.
Two thoughts:
1) if you’re north of 40, you better make some money if you want a dime piece to be interested. Just the reality.
2). Marriage is really for the birds. If you don’t want kids, there is no point. If I got divorced tomorrow, I would go the sugar baby route. I’d find 2 25 year old chicks who not only knew about each other, but also didn’t care and would occasionally play together. Don’t care how it’s perceived, that’s what I’d do. I would never get married again...and I actually have a pretty good wife/marriage.
Marriage is also like Thanos in that half the world dies....in this case the man's half.
If something were to happen to the wife or we somehow got divorced, I don’t see getting remarried or maybe even dating all that much. Maybe I’m just naive, but just chilling and coming down the years seems an all right proposition. Perhaps loneliness would get the better of me.
Yeah. But you have a scooter. Most of us are not that lucky.
And there you have it. A happily married man that says don't do it. So just imagine how insanely miserable the more than 50% of UNHAPPY married men are. It's crazy how many guys are willing to live a miserable life just so their friends and society ASSUME they are happy.......throwing your life away for appearances. It happens every day. Again, all you need is a dog and hobbies like golf, eating out and sex on demand.
I'm about to hit 47 and if I got divorced I also would probably stay single. Maybe do a little dating but nothing serious. I'm at the point where I think I can get along better by myself with no other person to worry about. I miss the days of doing what I want when I want. About the only thing marriage is good for these days is if you are to poor to live alone, have kids and want them to have a stable life, or if you just want to marry for money. You can do pretty much everything else just fine on your own with maybe some casual dating.
I really did find this to be the case, when I was younger. Less ******** to deal with, and honestly, they're usually better in bed.
I divorced when I was in my early 40s. I had a blast being single for about 15 years, I guess. When you get older, it's nice having someone. And my wife is the best. She'd support me in anything short of a criminal act. We make a good team. But it is very rare to find that.
But, I like to travel, hike, eat out and go to concerts, sporting events, theater and movies. I sure as hell don't want to go alone all the time and I'm not going to foot the bill for a 'casual date' to accompany me to Australia or Europe or to a nice steakhouse or a Broadway show. There definitely are times when it would be nice not to have anyone else to be concerned with but those are few and far between for me. Nobody's marriage is perfect but I wouldn't be a very happy person coming home to an empty house all the time. I'm probably in the minority but, after 33+ years, I still LIKE the woman I married and enjoy being with her.
I'm coming up on 20 years and am surprised one of us hasn't murdered the other one yet. [laughing] I actually like going to places by myself. Half the cost and no one to bug me. My wife gets antsy during movies and wants to look at her phone. The same for going out to eat. She always wants to play around on her phone.
I doubt she goes an hour total without being on her phone from the moment she gets home from work until the time she goes to bed. She might not even notice I was gone if I left her. [eyeroll] You can always have a dog to have some company. A dog is probably a better companion than a woman with a smartphone.
Maybe I’m a weirdo but I’ve been married 7 years with 2 kids and am very happy and love my wife and couldn’t imagine being single. Then again I got married at 33 after a lifetime of partying and debauchery and couldn’t give a **** less about banging a young girl or going out.
I constantly get approached by younger women—20s-30s-40s—sometimes i dread even going to kroger’s.
I used to think i was blessed but sometimes it can seem like a curse.
I used to think i was blessed but sometimes it can seem like a curse.
Um, it's none of my business, but that's a huge warning sign. Unless you know what she's doing on that phone...Facebook has exponentially increased infidelity.
No I trust her. She just spends so much time posting and reading Facebook and talking on the phone with her friends (most of the time on speakerphone and not trying to hide anything).
My daughter is a cheerleader and she is constantly talking to the other cheer moms. It's like a freaking club with all of them. They all try to live vicariously through their kids I think. Cheer moms are probably worse than little league dads.
Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Ladies Home Journal, Redbook, Harper's Bazaar, etc., etc. . . . none of all those ladies magazine published a single one of all those letters you sent and so now this . . . and just for us.
Don’t much like dating much younger women. I’m going 10+ as much younger. I’m 34, 24 year-old-women and younger typically are in a completely different state of mind and stage of life that I don’t really want to deal with. Especially if you go into the typical college age years. If they still think it’s a blast to stay up to the wee hours of Friday and Saturday night getting hammered on alcohol and/or drugs then I don’t want anything to do with them.
What’s wrong with staying up til the wee hours Friday and Saturday night getting hammered? Work hard play hard!
If the arrangement works for you, that's all that matters. I do like my alone time. But I also like attention from my wife.
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At least prostitutes are honest about their intentions.
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I know what you mean. I'm 63 now but dated a women that was 29 when I was 51. Never knew what to expect from day to day and it was mentally draining. Buuuttt, the physical part of the relationship was oner the top. Lasted for about six months until she started wanting "more", which undoubtedly meant marriage. Kind of like that George Strait song with the line "someday you'll pass her on the street, with that guy you used to be.........etc.".
It’s not stupid to the people doing it and having a great time!
More proof that it's nothing but an agreement, one where the woman has nothing to lose. She's rich if it works out, she's richer if she wakes up one morning and says "I want to do something different".
I have a cousin who got rich (inheritance) and married a beauty nearly half his age. He openly acknowledged that she did it because of his money but said he didn't care. Lost his money in fraudulent investments. She was gone soon afterwards. And he was saddled with child support.
When I was in my 20s I was dating an Australian woman, very fit tennis pro, who was about ten years older than me. She used to joke that we were fine - in Australia anything goes that doesn’t violate the “Half plus seven” rule. That’s half your age plus seven. So, if you are 18, that’s 9+7=16. If you are 38 - 19+7=26. If you are 60, 30+7=37.
When I hit 34, I met a woman 26 - well inside half plus seven. Well soon have three decades invested in this, a couple great kids, and we are very content.
Just don’t violate half-plus-seven and you’ll be fine.
When I hit 34, I met a woman 26 - well inside half plus seven. Well soon have three decades invested in this, a couple great kids, and we are very content.
Just don’t violate half-plus-seven and you’ll be fine.
Guy down the street from me got a divorce and has a kid. Met a girl online that had never been married. She rushed him along and he ended up re-married pretty quickly. She had a really good sales job. She quit that job not even days after they got married and said she was going to beauty school. He said "how" ?? She replied, we're married so naturally you'll help me through school. So her income went to zero and he had to pick up the beauty school bill. lol