Dating much younger women

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Well that turned quickly. Guess we’ve seen all the pics we’re gonna, at least ones of lust. Oh well, my glasses are dirty anyway.
 
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ManitouDan

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agreed. I was 41 and she was 26 when I met her. She wants a baby and I have a vasectomy. Will be paying a reversal. So I got a plan.

Going to pay for it on a 0% interest credit card. Then keep transfer balancing to another 0% credit card until the little **** is 16. Then when my kid is old enough to work I will make the kid pay me a $100 a week till my vasectomy is paid off.

sooo you still shooting blanks ? or you put some lead in that bullet ?
 

BlueVelvetFog

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Maybe I’m a weirdo but I’ve been married 7 years with 2 kids and am very happy and love my wife and couldn’t imagine being single. Then again I got married at 33 after a lifetime of partying and debauchery and couldn’t give a **** less about banging a young girl or going out.
Same here. Married in late 30s. Got the career settled, grad school crap outta the way.
 
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warrior-cat

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Same here. Married in late 30s. Got the career settled, grad school crap outta the way.
Second wife is pictured. First wife lasted 10 years with me in the military then, got tired of the military, found 4 other guys to fool around with (no joke) and wound up marrying one of them. I thought it was three when one of my sons later told me 4. Upside for me is that I tell people it took 4 men to replace this one and my X now looks like miss piggy. Life has a way of doing that to you.
 

BlueVelvetFog

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Second wife is pictured. First wife lasted 10 years with me in the military then, got tired of the military, found 4 other guys to fool around with (no joke) and wound up marrying one of them. I thought it was three when one of my sons later told me 4. Upside for me is that I tell people it took 4 men to replace this one and my X now looks like miss piggy. Life has a way of doing that to you.
Sometimes Karma tastes delicious
 
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The "older man/younger women" thing has become more prevalent these days. I'm 64 and my wife is 49 and we've hit the 8 years mark together. While I was still single the great majority of women I dated ranged from 10-21 years younger than myself and all had the exact same response when I asked them about the age difference which was; "Men my age don't have any ambition, can't/won't hold a job and only care about partying with their friends. They can't do anything around the house and most don't even know how to change a flat tire". There you have it.
 

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The "older man/younger women" thing has become more prevalent these days. I'm 64 and my wife is 49 and we've hit the 8 years mark together. While I was still single the great majority of women I dated ranged from 10-21 years younger than myself and all had the exact same response when I asked them about the age difference which was; "Men my age don't have any ambition, can't/won't hold a job and only care about partying with their friends. They can't do anything around the house and most don't even know how to change a flat tire". There you have it.
Not indifferent to what my wife told me when we first went out. That and they could not/would not commit to one woman. They were dating other people when she wanted a singular relationship. She was married to a guy her age at 20 and got divorced because he cheated on her. When I met her she was 23 and in the middle of her divorce. She was bartending when we met and I had no clue she had a thing for me until about a year later when she ask me out. I never considered it and when she ask me out I ask her if she knew how old I was and she said yes and wondered if that bothered me. No, did not bother me, I just wanted to make sure she knew what she was getting in to.
 
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Not indifferent to what my wife told me when we first went out. That and they could not/would not commit to one woman. They were dating other people when she wanted a singular relationship. She was married to a guy her age at 20 and got divorced because he cheated on her. When I met her she was 23 and in the middle of her divorce. She was bartending when we met and I had no clue she had a thing for me until about a year later when she ask me out. I never considered it and when she ask me out I ask her if she knew how old I was and she said yes and wondered if that bothered me. No, did not bother me, I just wanted to make sure she knew what she was getting in to.
Forget who said it, but there’s an old saying “Age is question of mind over matter - if you don’t mind it doesn’t matter”
 
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warrior-cat

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Forget who said it, but there’s an old saying “Age is question of mind over matter - if you don’t mind it doesn’t matter”
We really don't think about it much unless someone else brings it up. It has never really been a factor for us. My wife is also an inch taller than me at 5'10" makes more money than I do and is smarter than I am (shut up those of you who will agree to the last statement). Most have ask then why is she with me? In two words, "My Charm".
 

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You ask for it. June 2000 Warrior-Cat (42 years old and Wife 26). 16 years difference. When we met she was 23 and I was 39. Been together over 20 years now and she is still as beautiful as ever. Courthouse for marriage.


Hope you didn't look down in this picture. She's about to get ya.
 

Ron Mehico

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My parents are 15 years apart. My dad is 83 and my parents celebrated their 50th anniversary last summer. They’re both incredibly healthy and both their parents lived into their late 90s, but as my dad gets up there it’s hard not to think about my mom spending a good portion of her last years without him. That to me is the scariest part of a large age difference, but obviously for them it worked and they’ve had a wonderful lifetime together.