I don't think people are "putting the kid down" for anything other than what he did. Majority of people on this board don't know the kid outside the field and therefore aren't judging him beyond the lines. You seem to know him and say he's an exceptional kid, I believe you. But, what he did constituted the flag and he isn't playing. The rule (that everyone knew prior to the game) stated if you get two unsportsmanlike penalties, you will be out of the remainder of that game and the one to follow. Everyone knew the rule, it wasn't a secret. The Principal from SD has every right to either appeal or to decline to appeal. He made his decision. Again, stop deterring the blame to ANYONE else but the Richland's player. Lastly, you are right, we've all done "stupid" acts throughout life, some have learned from their mistakes and others haven't. His "stupid" act cost him a chance to play for a State Title. Now what he learns from this will show what type of character he has. You say he's a good kid, chances are he won't make the same mistake twice, which is ultimately what consequences are for.