Another thread has some references to this topic, but I will open it more globally. My only input would include a great way to get perspective on this matter. Get into a position for a few years that puts you in the stands at all types of venues, suburban and city. For example, a lower level coach who goes out every Friday to take scout video from the heart of the bleachers. What is heard, seen and tolerated from students, family/friend fans and coaches is unbelievable.