I also had a quite a few Greek friends. My father (who was also an independent) for some strange reason got issues of the SAE magazine. They kept on thinking he was an SAE out of Tulane, aschoolhe never attended-- and he joked with me saying I should be an SAE since I would be a 'legacy.'
For what it's worth, the only fraternity to recruit me before rush was Kappa Alpha-- I remember gettingsomething in the mail from them & I figured that was pretty cool of them to do that even though I wasn't interested. My sister, on the other hand, wasin a sorority at State-- she was in the first chapter of Alpha Delta Pi...