-Stone linen 2 button, pink shirt, pink tie and I'm think royal blue pants for Oaks. May go brown or navy. Probably drivers so I don't tear my feet up both days.
-Blue check linen 2 button, blue shirt, grey woven tie, navy slacks, fresh pair of Italian wing tips I've been eyeing for 2 years(feet are going to be like hell on Sunday).
Fine line b/w dressed for Oaks/Derby and dressed like an idiot. Saw a guy in a nice seersucker jacket last year, good looking shirt/tie and shorts. No. Just no.
-Thursday is the best for locals. Oaks is the best for lames and out of towners. Derby is the best for non-pussies. Why would you even attend an event like that if you 1. don't like to drink, 2. don't like drunks, 3. don't like crowds or lines? Any of the days this week are going to be crowded and full of rooks and drunks. Go next Thursday if you want short lines and such.
-Never been to any of the big parties. The day at the track is plenty of eventing for this guy, even early on. Can't imagine 11-7 at the track, dinner then 10-4a at some party. That being said Russ R and his boys apparently throw the big after BSB party. For me it's track, dinner, St Matts.