Hand shakes are for losers

Handshakes are for losers

  • Yes

    Votes: 7 5.1%
  • No

    Votes: 94 68.1%
  • Who cares

    Votes: 37 26.8%

  • Total voters
    138

98lberEating2Lunches

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Feb 11, 2018
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If one truly believes wrestlers are not to be defined by a win or a loss, as I seem to remember Brands saying during an interview, then a Brands' team should never have a problem shaking hands.

Clearly Tom did and Telford did (I don't know about all the other coaches), but few others did.

I think it is the kind of look that top recruits and their parents might not desire. Seems a less healthy environment.
 

Hawx224

All-Conference
Jun 30, 2025
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If one truly believes wrestlers are not to be defined by a win or a loss, as I seem to remember Brands saying during an interview, then a Brands' team should never have a problem shaking hands.

Clearly Tom did and Telford did (I don't know about all the other coaches), but few others did.

I think it is the kind of look that top recruits and their parents might not desire. Seems a less healthy environment.
I wouldn’t read that much into it, especially as a PSU fan
 

HawkDay1

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May 16, 2009
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Crazy that every other program can keep their emotions in check enough to get thru a handshake line and pay respect to their opponents.. hundreds of duals every year, year after year.
A certain wrestler from OSU couldnt keep his emotions in check just a few years ago
 

Rick Honcho

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Apr 19, 2011
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Among other things, post-match handshakes include a component of humility. Modern college, high school and professional sports could use a little more of that eh? Hawkeye women’s basketball & wrestling squads and Hawkeye men’s basketball team don’t have any issue with this simple task?
 
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Hawkapottomos Rex

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Jul 2, 2025
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Among other things, post-match handshakes include a component of humility. Modern college, high school and professional sports could use a little more of that eh? Hawkeye women’s basketball & wrestling squads and Hawkeye men’s basketball team don’t have any issue with this simple task?
The men's team has refused to shake hands many times.
 

SJP80

Sophomore
Oct 12, 2021
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The Brands teach toughness but not shaking hands at the end is the most p…y thing ever. I’m disappointed in that.
They do teach recruit and toughness. Probably should reallocate some of that time to recruiting and teaching offense. Hard to win matches without takedowns. Mikey C knows offense.
 

Anon1751644845

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Jul 4, 2025
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Win or lose, I think all wrestlers and coaches should go through the line. Also the winners should stay humble (no taunting) and same for the losers.
However, If the coaches sense that some wrestlers are not going to be able to compose themselves, then the coaches should just send them to the lockers and apologize to the opposing coaches for his team’s inability to put their emotions in check.
 

chipackhawk

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Jan 10, 2018
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Don’t care who made the call, it’s wrong and a bad look.
Would you rather have someone start mouthing off (does not matter from which team - but more than likely the winning team) and then a brawl takes place? They shook hands at the end of each match. Occasionally basketball teams do it as well. Just not a big deal and as was mentioned before, pretty good chances are the administrations said don't do it. Though Dresser did act like a douche with his arms spread wondering where everyone else was at actions.
 
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Fatwoodchuck

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Oct 19, 2023
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If remembering right, both universities coaching staffs and athletic depts made the call to end it.
If you watch Dresser walk over to the hawk bench it sure makes your statement sound fictitious, dresser is walking around with his arms out to the side like where did they all go, they don't want to shake hands?