Have you seen him play in person?
I agree that Jeter isn't flashy, that's pretty much exactly what I'm saying after all when I say he makes plays look easy.
Ozzie Smith, I think's who you're refering to when you say Cardinal's fan, was the best I have ever seen defensively all-around. No doubt about that. He made the Hall of Fame almost solely on defense alone, which should tell everyone something right there. Now, I have to confess this about Ozzie- I have seen him play in twice- once in 1985 when I was all of six or seven, and then in 1996 when Ozzie was 40 or something like that and sharing time with Royce Clayton. Ozzie was extremely quick on his feet, and he also had extremely quick hands. He was such a tremendous athlete, and he was all of 5'10" or so.
And I will say this- Ozzie's range was as good at least as Jeter's, if not better.
Now, that said, just because Jeter isn't flashy, it doesn't mean he shouldn't win the Gold Glove. I don't disagree with your three points about Jeter at all, so I'm not sure why you would think that I would rail against that. That said, Jeter's defense is the most underrated part of his game. And in part it's because he does those other things well, and it takes the focus away from his defense a little bit- not that that is a bad thing.
So, I will just say this in conclusion- I know what I saw, and the fact that I have seen both and am not a Yankees fan should be even the more reason to believe me. Because even if his range isn't as good as the Wizard's, it's pretty darn good.