I share those same feelings... It's a catch 22 for sure...
Not that you care, but from Tennessee's perspective I think getting thumped by Alabama again does absolutely nothing to help the program.
Of Tennessee's 4 losses prior to the bowl game, 2 would be to Bama, 1 to a top 10 A&M team on the road in double overtime, and 1 really bad loss to USC.
9-4 is a good year, but the perception would be disappointment especially with the taste of another Alabama thumping in everyone's mouth.
Really hoping Auburn can upset Alabama somehow. IMO this is the best Alabama team that Saban has had and it isn't even close. A healthy Tennessee team wouldn't beat them, much less the MASH unit we currently employ.
Unfortunately, college football is a perception driven entity and the media or the recruiting trail give little credit for who your losses come against.