Comparing Cal to Urban is as dumb as Urban's first statement. And by the way no Cal doesn't tell recruits those things. Don't believe me read what the recruits are saying for themselves. Cal first and foremost tells them about the pressure at UK and that it's not for everyone. If you don't invite living under the microscope at UK then you are better off going somewhere else. Cal gets recruits because he doesn't lie to them. To paraphrase a recruit in this class he committed to Cal because Cal was the only coach that told him what he didn't want to hear. That's the exact opposite of Meyer.
Meyer did the same thing...Told the kid he was not an OSU recruit at the beginning of the process and later the kid made himself into a player Meyer would offer. Sometime you're not going to hear things you like in life and it's how you deal with it. Urban wins and he may ruffle some feathers in the process, it happens! UK fans would take Urban in a heartbeat just like you warmed up to Cal after he started getting recruits and winning. UK fans hated Cal when he was at Memphis and that is a fact, I have been on this site since 2001 and I remember all the hatred towards Cal when he was kicking Tubby's rear for recruits calling him a cheater and a scumbag!