I said there were differences.
If you don't like the exploitation of the grad school transfer rule (which this is as you admitted), you don't like it when your school has a player do it. If you don't like schools recruiting shady characters, you don't like it when your school does it. If you don't like schools signing players with criminal histories, you don't like it when your school does it. Take a stance one way or the other and look at every situation the same. I did.
If you're a homer, the bending or breaking of rules or the living in the gray areas on certain rules only bother you when someone else does it. When your school does it or when one of your players does it, it's justified.
ETA: I'll clarify my stances for you, if you are in question.
1. I don't mind players exploiting the transfer rules. If the loophole is there and they can use it, it's up to the NCAA to close the loophole if they don't like it. I take that stance really with every NCAA loophole whether I think it's morally, a gray area, or whatever else. The best coaches are the ones that live in the gray and find ways to exploit the rules.
2. I also don't mind my team taking on criminals, miscreants, characters with shady pasts, etc. as long as it is done with some concern for the rules, and as long as it is done sparingly enough that team chemistry and other issues don't arise because of it.
3. I don't mind and actually hope that my school lives in the gray area when it comes to recruiting. If it's cheating done at a level that is deemed the norm, then I am all for it, because I realize that it's a necessity with the way the game is played.
4. I don't care about what a player chooses to do with his education. If a player chooses to use his scholarship to pursue a degree to benefit him when he gets out of college, good for him. If a player chooses to take the BS courses and pass just enough to stay eligible but not get a degree fine. The only thing I care is that they stay eligible and don't hurt the APR.
5. Ultimately I care about winning and doing so in the gray areas as necessary.
I hope that clarifies my general stance. I think most fans align with my thoughts, but only a handful are actually willing to admit it even to themselves. That's why you get justifications in those areas from fans when it's THEIR player, but chastising of the practices when it's a rival's player. You won't hear that from me.