I'll gladly defend anything I say, and am more than willing to admit when I'm wrong. I didn't change the subject, you answered my question (thank you for that), and I gave my response. It's about finding a "quality coach", so the off the field stuff and the guys he puts on the field don't matter?
How do you know Malzahn would have accepted the job? Bill Parcells, Steve Spurrier, etc..the list is endless of guys who have turned the job down. In the coaching community UK is known as a career killer and dead end job for an experienced head coach. I've heard and read several people describe it as such, and as of now it is, and THAT is why no "big time" coach is crazy enough to step into it.
Stoops was the perfect hire at the time, and time will tell if that holds true. He has name recognition, has been successful everywhere he has been D.C. and position coach, and I've yet to hear a negative thing about the man. He is well respected, and has many good connections that can help when they are available.
There are still people in the world with integrity, for example Eddie Gran. We could have had him last year, but he made a commitment and stuck with it.
From where we were the year before Stoops got here to where we are now...improvement can't be denied. It's not quick, it's not pretty, but it's a process. So unless you have D1 coaching experience, or AD experience, I will continue to listen to the experts on what makes a program, how to build a program (the right way), and maintain a program.