Hey guys. Pretty strong opinions on this subject, no doubt. I know y'all have heard this line of reasoning before, but allow me, in very respectful terms, to explain to you why this gentleman (if indeed this story is true)has a point.
First, my "point of reference". I am in my late thirties; I have three children, including two boys, under the age of six. I am a husband of some thirteen years. I grew up in the church of Christ and attend faithfully,trying desperately every day to live my life in a manner that is not only considered Biblically acceptable, but also acceptable to those around me. By that, I mean that I want people to WANT to be around me; I try to be considerate of everyone's feelings, deserved or not, and constantly "turn the other cheek",as I'm sure many of you on here do. My entire family has attended State at some point, starting with my father, who graduated in 1964, the first in his family to do so. I spent seven years there myself obtaining my Doctorate, and can't imagine spending any minute of my education anywhere else. I LOVE Mississippi State. Not ONE WORD of this makes me any better than any one of you on this board; don't misinterpret.
I love baseball. It is probably the only sport I ever played that I was any good at. My 5 year old son loves baseball apparently as much as I do, and already knows that the Bulldogs are our team, and the Rebels are PawPaw's team. We are glad only for PawPaw when the Rebels win (another lesson in itself). My son loves to watch in person.
Can any one of you tell me how any father can expose his five year old son (who repeats everything he hears, like they ALL do) to the type of language y'all are talking about here and justify it simply on the basis of it just "being part of the game"? If I were to win front row seats to a game at Dudy Noble and have that kind of language spewed out constantly at a volume that was clearly discernable to my son and then hear it out of his mouth a week later, how can I possibly discipline him with a straight face?
Keep in mind that I have never met John Cohen, and I have never so much as heard one foul word out of his mouth. Keep in mind that I also played football under Scott Samsel. I KNOW that kind of language is unavoidable if you play sports. It should NOT, however, be at a volume and frequency that it is easily heard by children in the stands at a game with their family. Wanna chew some player a new one? Fine. Do it in the dugout or fieldhouse.
I'm not out to change anyone's opinion about the language they use or even the language the coaches use. I AM asking that you not brand all of us the things that you are. If the guy wants to not attend until Cohen's gone, that's his right. I don't see the need in making a statement of it on a message board, but then again, maybe doing that will result in some changes. Not likely, but who knows? The indifference about such seemingly "trivial" things are why they get labeled as trivial in the first place.
Again, I'm not chunkin' Bibles at anybody. Just know that some of us simply don't see the need to expose our children to that kind of stuff if it can be avoided. I avoid it myself as an adult; I'm sure not going to bring my young child around it and then spank him for saying it at home.
Just my thoughts; I know we're all passionate about our Dawgs. Just don't label someone as such a pansy if you don't know their reasoning. Hope you can appreciate my viewpoint.