"All the facts" exist in the minds of the two people in that room. What you are saying is that we should continue with the way society has dealt with rape for 100's of years... nobody else saw it so it will always be one person's word against another's. Perhaps why only 7% of reported rapes ever get prosecuted...while most go unreported.it's a sticky situation...and the proper course of action is to get all the facts and then act accordingly...there doesn't need to be pressure from the federal government, society, popular culture, activist groups, sports talking heads, etc to rush to guilty verdicts...
Because evidence doesn't rise to the level of criminal prosecution doesn't mean that other organizations can't listen to two people and make their best determination about which they think is telling the truth and act accordingly. Just as OJ was found not guilty of murder, he was found "Responsible" in a civil court.
This is a subject matter for which there is no middle ground. You want only the criminal standard to apply and ignore that courts exists that don't require that standard of proof. You think that it is too easy for the woman yet every statistic you can find on rape and rape prosecution paints a entirely different picture. Perhaps it is too easy for women to cry rape and to bring civil penalties down on men...it is also too easy for men to rape a woman and get away with no penalties. There is no perfect system. Perhaps we should place cameras in every room, hallway, closet...every nook and cranney so that there is always a video record of everything that happens.