The truth is, we're (pro-gun and anti-gun alike) all tired of seeing kids die. We're all sick to death of it. I'd venture that greater than 60% of this board's membership consists of parents. Let's stop pretending that one side consists of simpleton, gun-toting 17s and the other side is a bunch of liberal, gun-grabbing communists. We may not be able to find much common ground on policy, but we can agree that this is a complex issue that will require more than a simple solution.
Stepping up security at our schools is a good first step. No, we don't want our schools to feel like prisons, but there are ways to increase security without putting our kids on lock-down. Armed security doesn't have to look like armed security. Offer incentives to veterans and former police officers to become teachers and coaches and allow them to concealed carry if they wish, with certain qualifications. We need more teachers anyway. Kill a couple birds with one stone. That's only one suggestion. Personally, I'd be okay with the previous poster's suggestion that we have well-paid veterans working security, but I can understand where some would oppose that from a financial standpoint and perception standpoint.
Another thing I'd like to see is for our school systems to stop treating children like adults and let them just fight it out the same way we used to. Is it really the worst thing in the world for a couple of eighth graders to rough each other up a little? If you don't want them fighting in the parking lot, encourage more contact sports like wrestling and boxing which are sanctioned by the schools. These activities let males blow off some steam and release some aggression while teaching them WHEN and how aggression can be used appropriately. Violence in and of itself is not a bad thing. Misplaced violence is a bad thing.
I also agree with Derhunter's idea about gun security. We have seen tax credits for things as silly as storm windows. My guns remain locked in a safe most of the time, but safes are expensive. Would it really be a terrible idea to see a tax break to help provide more gun security in our homes?
Another important thing to realize is that these things start at home. Yes, bullying is bad. I was bullied at one point. It never crossed my mind to shoot anybody because of it. I learned at an early age how it felt to kill something, to watch the life leave the body of another creature. We hunted. We fished. We shot things. We watched war movies and nature shows. We understood that life mattered and that death was permanent as young children. We have to introduce our kids to the real world and the realities of the world at an early age. And, we have to make our kids understand that they aren't freaking special. Treating our kids like precious, little snow flakes contributes to this epidemic. Bullying isn't new and is probably less prevalent today than it was back when it was more socially acceptable. Our kids are just less prepared to deal with it and that is our fault as a society for putting them in bubbles.
One final thing to remember, everything I have seen suggests the firearms used yesterday would not have been affected by any "common sense" gun ban. This has been the crux of the gun enthusiasts argument from the beginning. ANY gun can be dangerous in the wrong hands. One is not inherently more deadly than the other. Gun laws based on certain features just don't make sense. Murders in which firearms are used are down from the days of the original AWB. Those types of laws just don't work and they aren't common sense.