Red alert guys: whatever you do, don't forget to take out the trash
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Well, video doesn't load on here, but does if you follow link. Piece of work, that woman.
Lol what a disaster. Obviously there needs to be an equitable split of the work in the home between man and woman, but the entitlement here is over-the-top. Failing to empty the dishwasher or take the trash out = not valuing the wife? LOL
This makes me very thankful for my wife.
This makes me very thankful for my wife.
I don't know the first thing about her husband, but the fact that she posted this online about him tells me quite a bit about her.
She has another video that she specifically posted to tell all the other women out there all the things that she doesn’t do for her husband.
Nothing says true love like posting a video on the Internet to tell everyone the things you don’t do for your husband.
Taking out the trash was my only domestic chore. My wife didn't have to work and took total care of the home front.
It sounds like this woman just really doesn’t enjoy being married. It’s like some competition for her and all she does is sit around and keep constant score of who’s doing the most.
Poor guy. At least he will have some peace in divorce, but he is going to have drama with that woman until his baby turns 18 or until he gets that child educated. He needs to beat her to the punch and file. When a woman starts acting like this it's just a matter of time.
The important point is that you and your wife agreed on household duties and responsibilities.
When you have practiced Family Law for over 30 years, you have seen it all.Sounds like you KNOW what you're talking about.
Amazingly, they have made it 20 years. I don't see how. It certainly doesn't seem healthy to have one partner who is so focused keeping score of who is doing the most. Yes, there should be equity and balance in marriage I guess. Husbands shouldn't be bums who sit around and make their wife do all the work. But I also don't think you have to sit down and work it out mathematically that you each do exactly 50%.
But the fact that she has a social media presence airing out her dirty laundry and dumping on her husband. That's the odd part.
As @adcoop alluded to, spend time working in Family Law (former Family Law paralegal), and yes you believe this stuff. Especially when you see the kind of stuff that goes on during a divorce. You get to the point that very little surprises you.
25 year family law paralegal here... as others have stated, you would not believe the shite we've seen, and little to nothing surprises us. If it's a surprise, it's WILD.
WILD: (imho)
Knew my ex wife since the 7th grade.
1) Still have a text from her on my old phone from Oct. 2019 -ish that says "I love you, us, and our life together."
2) Then she was taking little "day trips" with another married man supposedly "for work." (She was already a known adulterer from a previous marriage but I gave her fresh start / chance) *FIRST RED FLAG TRIGGERED*
3) When I tried to talk to her about it and how I thought it was not appropriate - she immediately went on the defensive and said it was appropriate because it was "for work", called me jealous, etc...... *SECOND RED FLAG TRIGGERED*
4) On into the year of 2020 (COVID) (And the election coming up in Nov. of that year) - I was trying to get my parents to sell their house in Charlotte and *GET OUT* before the election......(ie: cash out while the economy is hot and get out of this "Sanctuary city") My parents agreed and did exactly that.....
5) At the same time I found out my 20 year old son had cancer...... and I was extremely upset about the election, my son, the move, etc.....
I was literally crying my eyes out TO THIS WOMAN / my friend / my wife...... and something told me...."shut up dude, she is recording you!!!"
So I asked her point blank, "Are you recording me??" - She looked absolutely shocked.... but said "Yes" (She thought I was going crazy) *THIRD RED FLAG TRIGGERED*
6) Then, after 7 years of literally a fight free marriage and lifelong friendship, she all of a sudden starting picking completely nonsensical fights with me.
7) She also let it be known to me that she was getting some sort of "help" (advice) from outside of our marriage .... with veiled threats and hints of she was going to try to have me committed , etc.... etc.... (the crazy narrative) *FOURTH RED FLAG TRIGGERED*
That's it, we're done....... but I waited..... patiently......
8) (At this point - as an old country boy - I knew she was setting a trap for me of some sort.) The fights?? > Probably trying her best to get me to hit her..... which would have been the lottery for her of course. Likely what she wanted. It did not work out for her..... I don't "hit" anybody.
9) The day she decided to "spring her trap" on me, she barged into the bedroom while I was literally lying there watching television during the Covid lockdown and informed me that she was calling the police on me.......right then.....phone in hand......I was not doing a thing to that woman......
10) The day had come that she sprang her trap....... and I let her walk right into it. While *I CANNOT* get into it..... what I will say is that when you play dirty, underhanded games against someone, don't be surprised when the other person plays dirty too........ I called the cops on her at the same time....... two can play that game, baby.......
11) She left in handcuffs - never saw her again. I lost my son to cancer and my wife to........??? ...... (I call it "woman games")
12) Received an email from her "HR" person at the workplace informing me he was "new" and was not aware that employees / male / female - alone together were taking little day trips on company time and low and behold that IT WAS NOT APPROPRIATE AT ALL (Duh)....and he would see to it that the practice was stopped.
A year later, I filed for absolute divorce. (NC has a 12 month waiting period) My motto is simple: Not happy?? > There's the door. Bye.
I mean....... you can FAFO against me if you want to but it's not a wise thing to do...... She ain't the first crazy woman I've had to show the door. As a side note, the house in Charlotte sold for the most $$ any house in that neighborhood had *EVER* sold for.... and we got them a little place in far west Hickory with a Church as their neighbor and a creek that they Baptize people in, right off the front porch.... and the payoff is $50k...... $50k mortgage...... but yeah, I'm "crazy" ..... uh huh...... (SMDH)
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You do sound bat **** crazy. But so does she.
Seriously though, sorry to hear you lost your son. That’s heartbreaking to hear.
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Like those times that you know what went on in the marriage (REALLY wild shite), and what will likely be presented in discovery. But when you actually come face to face, as it were, with the photographic evidence, not much prepares you for that. Especially in a document dump when you're having to sort it yourself and have no warning.
Every single reply in the comments are women agreeing with her saying this is what needs to be said and that this is how marriage is these days and that men have no respect for women…
"My husband risks his life for the betterment of society. Now listen to all my stress at home."
Seems like this is a conversation she should have with him, not Instagram.
Check out the Dadvocate and emilywking on Youtube shorts. Their channels are FULL of women like this getting roasted for their stupidity.
Sounds like hubby needs a better wife. She's just looking for excuses to get POed. Too bad they had all those kids. I'm betting on a score of 1 to 10 she's a minus 5 in the bedroom. Her husband has a stressful job and could easily get killed while working.