Sad news for the Bassett Community

DinwiddieProud

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Wayne Turner, the head football at Bassett from 1966 to 1973, passed away this morning.

Coach Turner was a Henry County native that proved that you can accomplish whatever you truly want. Wayne was part of a very large family that lost their father when they were all young. Capitalizing on the his mother's pride and work ethic, Wayne put himself through UVA, obtaining a Master's degree.

It was this determination that Coach Turner instilled in his students and athletes during his career in education. Coach Turner's football teams always earned the respect of their opponents, on and off the field. His players were known for their grit and determination, but more importantly, they always were reconized for their sportsmanship and fair play.

Coach Turner's football teams won twice as many games as they lost, making them a threat every Friday night. Coach Turner has an unusual note to his record. His first game as head coach ended in a tie, and his last game, eight seasons later ended in a tie.

Wayne Turner moved here to Dinwiddie in 1973, and soon became a friend, a mentor, and the best damn neighbor a person could ever hope to have. He taught me so much about life, and about living life the proper way. It would take me a 100 pages or more to describe what he taught me.

I will miss my dear friend, but I'm glad his suffering has ended. Kidney failure led to a serious decline in his health in recent months. But not one single time, did I ever hear him complain, or utter one word of self pity.

Wayne was a devout Christian. He told friends and family members many times in recent weeks that he was ready to go join Jesus. He told his daughter one day recently, as confusion began to cloud his conversations, that Jesus was a great cook, and cooked the best hamburgers. In fact, it was a reference to this that informed me of his passing. His daughter texted me early this morning that, "dad is enjoying a biscuit in heaven with Jesus this morning!"

Coach Turner, we are all better people for having known you.
 

bceagle47

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Outstanding tribute! I don’t know Coach Turner but, based on what you have written I have to believe he and so many other coaches across this country who spend 1-30 years of their life helping young men learn to be grown men hold this ship together. I could care less if you don’t win a game. Be an example of what a good person looks like and kids will remember that and with that you never really lose. Well said Coach!
 

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Wayne Turner, the head football at Bassett from 1966 to 1973, passed away this morning.

Coach Turner was a Henry County native that proved that you can accomplish whatever you truly want. Wayne was part of a very large family that lost their father when they were all young. Capitalizing on the his mother's pride and work ethic, Wayne put himself through UVA, obtaining a Master's degree.

It was this determination that Coach Turner instilled in his students and athletes during his career in education. Coach Turner's football teams always earned the respect of their opponents, on and off the field. His players were known for their grit and determination, but more importantly, they always were reconized for their sportsmanship and fair play.

Coach Turner's football teams won twice as many games as they lost, making them a threat every Friday night. Coach Turner has an unusual note to his record. His first game as head coach ended in a tie, and his last game, eight seasons later ended in a tie.

Wayne Turner moved here to Dinwiddie in 1973, and soon became a friend, a mentor, and the best damn neighbor a person could ever hope to have. He taught me so much about life, and about living life the proper way. It would take me a 100 pages or more to describe what he taught me.

I will miss my dear friend, but I'm glad his suffering has ended. Kidney failure led to a serious decline in his health in recent months. But not one single time, did I ever hear him complain, or utter one word of self pity.

Wayne was a devout Christian. He told friends and family members many times in recent weeks that he was ready to go join Jesus. He told his daughter one day recently, as confusion began to cloud his conversations, that Jesus was a great cook, and cooked the best hamburgers. In fact, it was a reference to this that informed me of his passing. His daughter texted me early this morning that, "dad is enjoying a biscuit in heaven with Jesus this morning!"

Coach Turner, we are all better people for having known you.


Commonwealth of Virginia sadly has lost a few good coaches this year.
 

DinwiddieProud

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Thank you BC47. You are exactly right. The lessons that most coaches impart on their students are never reflected in their win/loss record.

I want to take this opportunity to remind all of you coaches, in fact, all of you educators, that you never know when "how you act" or "what you say" will stick.

I know that many days you feel like you are wasting your time, basically being ignored by the very kids you want to help. But, I'm here to tell you, stay the course. Do and say the right things, everyday, day after day, week after week, year after year. Because most of the kids are hearing you. It may takes them years to fully understand and appreciate what you are trying to do for them. But, most will have learned more from you than you will ever know.

I had the opportunity to talk to one of Coach Turner's former players today, at the funeral home, during visitation. This gentleman only confirmed what I already knew about Coach Turner. Coach put helping his players above nearly everything else in his life. The guidance, the mentorship, the trust and respect that Coach Turner provided, sowed the seeds of living a responsible life in the young men he coached.

But, Coach Turner is not unique, in fact, he really is not very different from the overwhelming majority of the high school coaches out there. All of you WANT to be remembered like Coach Turner has been. And most of you will be. It's not easy. In fact, it's extremely hard. Frustrating to the point of just throwing in the towel. But, if you are able to help even one kid have a better shot at a decent life, count your career as success. Let your record reflect zero loses in the "I honestly tried my best", column.
 
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