in that situation, the refs come together to get a call right, and if none of them are sure of the call, they go to the monitor. if, however, one ref is sure in what he saw, they do not go to the monitor.
what they're doing here is completely different. stu jackson is basically reviewing every game after the fact, regardless of what the refs called on the court. if he can issue a flagrant foul on dahntay jones a day after the game, why can't he change a call from a charge to a block, or call someone for carrying the ball (because it happens all the time and the refs never call it)?
i guess what i'm saying is that jones should be fined and/or suspended, not retroactively called for a flagrant foul upon further review - that just doesn't make much sense. and if you get a T, even if you were yelling at your teammate instead of the opponent (or whatever your excuse may be), then you have to live with it, because that's a judgment call to be made on the spot by the official.