I appreciate Ms. K defending her son. I'd prefer that she didn't call people a-holes while complaining about message board disrespect. Can't have it both ways.
She implied that only D1 wrestlers should be able to critique Ben's performance. Here's what 2x NCAA champ Ironside had to say:
"Gotta get into some scrambles."
"Keep your hands and feet moving. Really up your pace."
"Can't just be hanging out."
"Not creating enough action."
"Try to get some angles. He's just wrestling straight on. He has to get a shot fired off, he's gonna get dinged for stalling."
"He can't just stand around, collar tie and not pull the trigger."
All spot on, with as much tact as an Iowa-affiliated radio commentator can muster.
Based on Ben's tongue-wagging at the end of the match, he apparently didn't agree with that assessment of his performance. That is unfortunate for what it says about his mindset and his coaching. He's ranked #5, for God's sake. He should not even be celebrating a victory over #9, particularly in SV, and particularly one in which he didn't take a single shot in regulation. That tells me he thinks he should be ranked #10 and he had to slow the pace down and get to SV to beat that guy. He has the talent and speed and scrambling ability to major that guy. He would've majored this guy had he done what Ironside was pleading with him to do. He has so much talent, and for whatever reason, he's not fully leveraging it. And he's not the only one on the team, which points to a broader coaching failure.
Message boards are harsh. If I met Ms. K in person, I'd say hello and wish her well and wish Ben well. I appreciate his talent and want him to succeed, and most of all I want the program to succeed. But...we're here to discuss wrestling, and what makes the board valuable is having fans speak their mind without concern for whose parent is reading the comments. That also makes it a cesspool, of course. But that's the tradeoff.