I graduated high school in May of 96' (around the 30th), got married on June 8th (yes I know I probably should've waited & no she wasn't pregnant) and before fireworks were popping in July I was @ a training facility preparing for my military career. It was the toughest year of my life, period. But those were responsibilties that I accepted and invited on myself. I didn't HAVE to get married or join the military. But even after that, there wasn't people on message boards telling others for my folks to read about how great or terrible of a soldier I was. How many targets I missed or how many fallen members of my company I helped off a war raged battlefield. It's gotta be tough to walk into trig class and have people you call your friends tell you what's being said about you on twitter or sixpack. Don't tell me about freedom of speech, I'm part of the reason you people HAVE these freedoms anyway. I served 8 years in the military, I had some of the best & worst times of my life in those 8 years. But it's gotta be EXTREMELY tough with twitter, FB and boards on these kids. I'm pretty close to one of the star players on this years team. He has shown me some of the tweets he's gotten from people who on thier bios are "state" fans. Hateful, racist, sickening and terrible stuff. All the positive pressure like girls, atta boy's, smiles, handshakes and stuff that's only HALF of what they deal with. I've also seen FB private messages sent to this same guy. Man let me tell you, these are Div 1 football players. Do you know how hard it is for a 300lb DT to get a hateful, racist PM from a 160lbs kid. and not retaliate? These kids are NOT pro's! I'm 6'4 280lbs and I am 34 years old, a father and a husband, a volunteer high school football coach and a MMA fighter. Do you know how hard it would be for me to log in on my FB to talk to my mom and dad who I'm away from and see this punk call me the "n" word, and a slew of curse words and not send this kid a PM back that is threatening in nature? And then in the back of my head know if I do I could be kicked off the team, possibly lose my scholly? Come on guys, talking on here is one thing but to send players who aren't even gonna be pros stuff like that is terrible. Football is as a combative sport as MMA, these guys and myself are ambassadors of violence in a controlled enviroment. It's gotta be tough to see stuff like that on YOUR twitter & FB pages and then NOT do anything week in and week out in a 3-3 season. I can honestly say as a man, I probably couldn't do it. Being honest. But that's probably why I'm no a Div 1 athelete either. I'd probably do something like Sidney did last year. But I know for a fact that most of these kids playing today feel worse than you do after they lose.