Former Duke player accused of rape.

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THe Kavanaugh mess was total chaos and turned out to be not true at all.

Very skeptical of this as well. I have no idea how women deal with or feel through all of this. She may very well totally truthful.

Just seems odd to wait all of these years and them come out with all this info now. May be very valid reasons. I don't know. Just seems odd to me.
Do you have evidence he didn't assault Blassey-Ford? How was it proven untrue?
 

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I ain't the smartest man in the world and I can't even fathom being raped, but if I were ever the victim, I can't see myself ever going to the Dean or a coach to report it. Basic common sense says you call the police. I guess you gotta say you reported it to a University official for the lawsuit.

Unless it has happened to you (not you specifically, but anyone), it's hard to imagine what's going through a victim's mind. It's easy for some of us to say, "Well, you should have done this...", but unless we've been there, we honestly don't know.
 
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Brian Davis said in an article that he was "so in love with Christian", who was his roommate and best friend, and when they played at Duke their body language and communication with each other suggested they were more than friends, which Brian emphatically denied but many perceived to be true.
Shew! Thanks for clarifying.
I was thinking Anthony Davis :grimace:
 

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Do you have evidence he didn't assault Blassey-Ford? How was it proven untrue?
Yes, the multiple people that said they interviewed said they don't ever remember such a party. Also, the folks she listed as witnesses said the same thing. She couldn't remember the date, where it happened, etc.

You tell me how it was proven true?
 

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Unless it has happened to you (not you specifically, but anyone), it's hard to imagine what's going through a victim's mind. It's easy for some of us to say, "Well, you should have done this...", but unless we've been there, we honestly don't know.
It's not hard to imagine being a victim of a serious crime. I'm sorry but I use common sense to judge every situation and a girl getting raped and reporting it to the Dean but not the police doesn't pass the smell test.
 

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Being careful to jump to conclusions on someone being accused is ignorant? I thought we were innocent until proven guilty in this country? Your contention is that the salacious mob mentality hoping this stuff is true because it involves a rival university is the enlightened side of this debate?

Please, tell me more [laughing]
But didnt you just jump conclusions blaming the left and political grandstanders and saying you found it likely untrue? That seems a bit hypocritical, no?
 

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THe Kavanaugh mess was total chaos and turned out to be not true at all.

Very skeptical of this as well. I have no idea how women deal with or feel through all of this. She may very well totally truthful.

Just seems odd to wait all of these years and them come out with all this info now. May be very valid reasons. I don't know. Just seems odd to me.
There’s already a lot more to the Va Lt. Gov thing than with Kavanaugh. Starting with specific time and place, multiple non-sensational allegations (2 already and supposedly more to come), perp and victim know each other, claims of contemporaneous statements made to multiple people. It’s certainly much more falsifiable, if false.
 
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If you don’t speak up at the time and come forward years or decades later don’t expect me to take your motives as being sincere

Sorry

An internet 'guy' has standards about women coming forward with sexual assault. Apologies not everyone that gets sexually assaulted meets those idiotic standards.

I hope when you become an adult you fully understand what you're saying today because it's quite idiotic.
 

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It's not hard to imagine being a victim of a serious crime. I'm sorry but I use common sense to judge every situation and a girl getting raped and reporting it to the Dean but not the police doesn't pass the smell test.

Apologies, but I disagree. Unless you're a woman, you have no idea what it's like being a woman. Your way of life is not the same as the other gender's.
 

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But didnt you just jump conclusions blaming the left and political grandstanders and saying you found it likely untrue? That seems a bit hypocritical, no?
Get back at me when its all settled and we'll see. Weve seen this movie before.
 

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There’s already a lot more to the Va Lt. Gov thing than with Kavanaugh. Starting with specific time and place, multiple non-sensational allegations (2 already and supposedly more to come), perp and victim know each other, claims of contemporaneous statements made to multiple people. It’s certainly much more falsifiable, if false.
I agree. There seems to be a lot more info in this than the Kavanaugh fiasco. He openly admitted he knew her. Hopefully the real truth comes out whichever way that takes it.
 

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Apologies, but I disagree. Unless you're a woman, you have no idea what it's like being a woman. Your way of life is not the same as the other gender's.
I know several women and if any of them were the victim of a felony, they would all call the police instead of the Dean. You're acting like women are helpless mouth breathing idiots, they are not.
 

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An internet 'guy' has standards about women coming forward with sexual assault. Apologies not everyone that gets sexually assaulted meets those idiotic standards.

I hope when you become an adult you fully understand what you're saying today because it's quite idiotic.

Yeah because I understand what the true motive is which is to destroy powerful men with unfounded accusations. Now if you can prove it it’s a different story, but that’s too often not the case but the media tears you apart anyway. I don’t wanna live in a country like that if you or anyone else does go back to the ussr
 

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Yes, the multiple people that said they interviewed said they don't ever remember such a party. Also, the folks she listed as witnesses said the same thing. She couldn't remember the date, where it happened, etc.

You tell me how it was proven true?
Being corroborated doesn't make it untrue. Everyone who jas interviewed her has said she appears credible. Also, her witnesses said they couldn't remember the specific night in detail, but that they did admit to attending several parties like the one mentioned. She also knew a lot of details about the guys around that time frame, like when and where they worked, who they socialized with, parties they attended. Seems credible.

Regardless, you did say it was proven false, but that isn't accurate at all. It was never on trial to be decided. Statute of limitations was expired. That was just a senate hearing to decide whether to confrim a justice. 47 people agreed with her side pf events. Well over the amount needed to convict in a court of law.
 

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I know several women and if any of them were the victim of a felony, they would all call the police instead of the Dean. You're acting like women are helpless mouth breathing idiots, they are not.

Yeah, I never said that at all. You just said that. All I said was that you're not a woman, so you have no idea what it's like being a woman. Your expectations of how to handle situations are far from the same.

Not sure how that got lost in translation, but there it is again.
 

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Yeah because I understand what the true motive is which is to destroy powerful men with unfounded accusations. Now if you can prove it it’s a different story, but that’s too often not the case but the media tears you apart anyway. I don’t wanna live in a country like that if you or anyone else does go back to the ussr

You're an idiot. Congrats.
 

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Being corroborated doesn't make it untrue. Everyone who jas interviewed her has said she appears credible. Also, her witnesses said they couldn't remember the specific night in detail, but that they did admit to attending several parties like the one mentioned. She also knew a lot of details about the guys around that time frame, like when and where they worked, who they socialized with, parties they attended. Seems credible.

Regardless, you did say it was proven false, but that isn't accurate at all. It was never on trial to be decided. Statute of limitations was expired. That was just a senate hearing to decide whether to confrim a justice. 47 people agreed with her side pf events. Well over the amount needed to convict in a court of law.
Nobody could say for certain Kavanugh was at the party, nobody could say for certain that it happened at all. You just seem to want to accept it because you either don't like Kavanaugh or have a political agenda.
He went through 7 FBI background checks. Nothing ever came up that caused them to further investigate him on this accusation.
You must surely believe this lady against Fairfax and the very long list of Bill Clinton accusers then.
 

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The burden of proof lies with the accuser. You can’t prove a negative

I heard you beat and rape your wife prove to me you aren’t a predator
When was the trial again?

Burden of proof doesn't detail whether something is actually true or false. Just whether it can be proven beyond a reasonable doubt. The accused in this case will likely never go on trial because a statute of limitations is likely passed, but that doesn't change what did or didn't happen. Nor will it change public perception.

Facts are very few women actually faslely accuse someone of sexual assault. I know men like to think they do, but the public embarrassment and shame most women have to experience publicly from such admissions are enough to deter most anyone from reporting it period. Far, far more often women don't report sexual assaults becuse of the embarrassment and shame.
 

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Being careful to jump to conclusions on someone being accused is ignorant? I thought we were innocent until proven guilty in this country? Your contention is that the salacious mob mentality hoping this stuff is true because it involves a rival university is the enlightened side of this debate?

Please, tell me more [laughing]
I read your post. It wasn't a " jump " :joy:
 

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Nobody could say for certain Kavanugh was at the party, nobody could say for certain that it happened at all. You just seem to want to accept it because you either don't like Kavanaugh or have a political agenda.
He went through 7 FBI background checks. Nothing ever came up that caused them to further investigate him on this accusation.
You must surely believe this lady against Fairfax and the very long list of Bill Clinton accusers then.

I have no sympathy for anyone that sexually assaulted a human being, regardless of political affiliation.

And I have zero faith in our government when it comes to investigating anything. It's all politically motivated, both parties.
 
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Yeah, I never said that at all. You just said that. All I said was that you're not a woman, so you have no idea what it's like being a woman. Your expectations of how to handle situations are far from the same.

Not sure how that got lost in translation, but there it is again.
So an intelligent woman who is the victim of rape would report the crime to the Dean of her school instead of the police? That sounds reasonable to you?

Also, are you even a woman or do you just like speaking for them?
 
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One thing is for sure, the sports media is gonna treat this rape allegation like a Baylor rape allegation. It likely wont even be a story like the Suliamon case.
 
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Nobody could say for certain Kavanugh was at the party, nobody could say for certain that it happened at all. You just seem to want to accept it because you either don't like Kavanaugh or have a political agenda.
He went through 7 FBI background checks. Nothing ever came up that caused them to further investigate him on this accusation.
You must surely believe this lady against Fairfax and the very long list of Bill Clinton accusers then.
Lol, where did I say I beleived one way or the other? That was you saying it was proven lies, not me. I said it wasn't proven at all, which is entirely true. Not only was it not proven, it was never on trial to be proven.

Well, considering there are the lewinski tapes that show he was a sexual pervert, and multiple women have accused him and have credible strories, i would say yea, i beleive them. I don't like Hillary either! So what now?

Fairfax needs to go! Both cases deserve to be heard and decided, but 2 accusations in less than a week and it's time to resign. Also, the Governor and AG need to go as well!
 

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So an intelligent woman who is the victim of rape would report the crime to the Dean of her school instead of the police? That sounds reasonable to you?

Also, are you even a woman or do you just like speaking for them?

Gosh, it's like repeating the same thing over and over again. We'll go this direction.

You're not a woman so you have no idea what you're talking about, nor can you speculate what is going through a woman's mind after she is sexually assaulted and what she should be doing.

Again, I'm not sure where you're getting lost here, but you're definitely getting lost halfway through.
 

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One thing is for sure, the sports media is gonna treat this rape allegation like a Baylor rape allegation. It likely wont even be a story like the Suliamon case.

THAT I can agree with because you can't cast a bad light on Duke in this. That means revenue will be lost. People in power won't let that happen.
 

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I really hope we find out this was a coverup by the University.
I hope so too. Just think, if ncaa finds anything on duke, no telling what program will get sanctions. (It wont be duke...)

Long time acc school gets caught with huge infraction and ncaa goes after some random program as a distraction while the original mess is covered/cleaned up.