That's a huge false. Why do I have to fake sentiment for someone I never respected, liked, and was an overall bad person? He had decades to apologize and never even hinted at it. Died sad and lonely. I see the tragedy in the situation, but doesn't mean I'm cutting him a break, as he obviously didn't want it.
I have plenty of relatives that I didn't respect or think about the the good things when they passed. In fact the world is a better place without them.
I wouldn’t expect you to understand.