buy the maturity bit. either you are a player or you are not. look at carmelo anthony, dwayne wade, kevin durant, greg oden. sure greg oden looks 137 years old but he has the mental maturity that all of us did when we were 18.
we just have never had one of those players. they all skipped on us before we could get a jersey on them. bender, outlaw, ellis, etc... there wouldnt be a single person on this board talking about maturity if we had gone to the elite 8 or final 4 with anyone of those players. you would all be talking about getting a basketball player and not keeping our players until they were seniors or until they shaved more than once a week.